A girl i met just a few weeks ago has asked me to be her date to her mum's wedding. We'e only been on two dates and the second time i was going to tell her that i thought we should just be friends, but before i got the chance our table got hijaked and i didn't get to tell her.

This morning she asked me to be her date,and i made so many excuses about why i couldn't do it, but she had an answer for every single one.

Now i feel like i need to 'break up' with her, but i don't want to hurt her because she really is lovely, it's just that I'm not really into her.

What can i do, or say without being a total bitch? Halp, halp.

Agree to go to the wedding, but just as friends. Tell her "I'd be delighted to go with you as your friend". Hopefully she'll pick up on that last word and get the hint. If you do elaborate, why don't you tell her what you told us? "I don't want to hurt you because you're such a lovely person, and I hope you don't think I'm a jerk for leading you on because I really would love to be your friend." Talk to her as soon as possible, and try to look forward to the wedding.

Holly's Sneaky Advice no.04857593

Say, "Your family won't mind you bringing a friend to the wedding?" and if she implies that you guys aren't just friends, drill it home that you really got the vibe that you guys made better "friends" than anything, and you thought she felt the same. You drop the bomb, but you do it in the "Ohhh you didn't think the same thing? Wow, I thought you felt it too" sort of way.

Or do things the Saved By The Bell way... go, but act like a total douche and she'll never want to call you again.

this is good, if you actually want to go to the wedding.
tell her you want to focus more on your school stuffs atm

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I really don't want to go, and it's a couple of hours away on the train too. I don't even have time to visit friends who live in the same city.

I tried the studying excuse but it didn't work, because it isn't until May.

I mentioned that it was 5 months away, and that i had no idea what i was doing in May yet, and I think that upset her.

I tried other tactics too. I even talked about a date i had last Sunday night, but it didn't phase her. I was even a bit mean.