Another psycho ex thread.

For about a month now my boyfriends ex has been making our lives hell & it's got to the point where I'm beginning to think it's not worth all this shit, which is something i never thought I would say as I've wanted this for the best part of 2 years.

So far this girl has;
- stolen my boyfriends passport the night before we were due to go on holiday
- Sat outside his flat in her car for over an hour when she knew I was the only one in, texting my bf, telling him she's gonna talk to me. When she was finally driven off by my bfs friend she went home, texted him saying she was gonna kill herself & reckoned she had about 5 minutes to live, ambulance/family members were called, when they got to hers the stupid cunt was fine & it was all just a 'big joke'
- Said various things about me, that i'm a psycho & a slut & she can't wait til i fuck someone else etc
- Changed her facebook picture to one of ME then when confronted about it changed it to a picture of her & my boyfriend kissing
- & all the general, coming round, crying, shouting, trying to get him back kinda shit.

Basically I'm just getting longed out, all this shit it being done by someone I have not so much as been in the same room with in my life.
I have never retaliated in any way or given any indication that I'm even aware of her actions, obviously my boyfriend is getting far more shit than me. Both of us are trying to ignore it the best we can but it's getting to the point where i'm gonna have to say something to her (which i've been forbidden to do), or just fuck out of the relationship.

I don't know what to do & i've got enough on my plate without having to deal with this shit.

Anyone got any ideas? Or know the best way to stop this?

I've had enough & I'm stuck

How long have they been broken up?
How long have you two been dating?
Did you maybe start dating him while he was still with her?
What is the reason they broke up, if not?

I don't see why you don't just get a restraining order. I have had girls harass me online over exes, but it never got this intense. She's not right in the head. Surely he must agree its time for one?

We have talked about that actually, it just seems a bit extreme & we're doing our best not to provoke her more.

It's actually kinda complicated, they were together for about 4 years, then she cheated on him & they broke up about 2 years ago, i met him soon after & we started seeing each other for a couple of months, but then broke up cause I was going to uni far away. We stayed in contact & actually got closer after I left, fell in love blah blah. Then she came back on the scene, & i started seeing something else. A few months ago she cheated on him again & they broke up again. We've only been back together for a couple of weeks now, & nothing funny went on between us when they were together, I can see why she's pissed but she's taking it way too far.

It sounds like maybe your boyfriend ain't quite right in the head either. You'll probably be just like his ex before you know it.

You can see why she's pissed? She keeps cheating on him. What's her deal??

Restraining order. This girl isn't going to just grow up.