....HE is over the past, so why am I so obsessed with it? I find myself constantly obsessing over girls my boyfriend has been with in the past and fearing he will get back together with them, on top of fearing he will fall for a new girl, etc.Yes I am ultra insecure. Can someone please help me stop being so damn psycho and actually enjoy my relationship??

just chill your beans

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I can relate to you so much. I am looking forward to getting advice from this post too! "Cool your beans" is actually great advice I just wish it was that simple.

Same problem here. Looking forward to the answers.

I used to be like this but one day it just went away. I still find myself going into moments of "panic" sometimes but then they're gone. Just think about how you feel about your old partners/flings and imagine he thinks about his the same way (for me that is usually hate/annoyance) unless you have feelings for yours still.. which is .