it feels like everything is his call. i haven't really tried asking for anything though.

he's 28, i'm 21. he's quite a bit more superior than me at work (we keep the whole thing underwraps). we're both in it for the sex, but i'd like to have a little more control over things. i'm always on call for him, so why can't it be the other way around?
if the sex weren't amazing i wouldn't bother.

i just feel entitled to some benefits. it's my vagina, afterall. and i hope didn't post this in the wrong place.

Why don't you just ask him and see how he reacts?

Try saying no when he wants to meet up and tell him when YOU have the time for him. That'll give you some control over the situation. That's what I do, and it seems to be working.

say no once or twice

make him work for it a bit

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said thanks for the insults and compliments
you'll never forget my face no more

tomorrow i will try this saying no to him. it will be like saying no to a billion dollars (the feeling of it, not the value), but i can do it.


now i find myself worried about the stupid "what if he goes and fucks someone else?" part. maybe he's a sex addict. i think tonight i should confront him about that.