I tried to make this thread before and it wouldn't post. I used 3 exampled of how things have gone wrong for me before. They may have made me sound lame and kittyradio was trying to make me save face by not posting the thread so i will elave them out of this one.

Here is my question.
how do you find out from someone that you are maybe kind of seeing/dating if they are maybe kind of seeing other people too or fucking other people or if they only kind of date or fuck you? Not that I am actually getting laid, just taken out on a lot of dates. I don't want to be not getting laid by someone who is possibly having sex and other dates with other people while I am turning sex and other dates down. Oh and I don't want to find out by asking because asking is awkward.

I hope I didn't write this too badly.
(I nearly signed this post with my real life full name).

binoculars?

he will spot me and call me a dick for sure.
Especially as I think I was telling him last time I saw him that i wanted a pair of binoculars.
He will spot my binocular eyes in the distance and know straight away that it is me.
bad idea greer.

just pretend youre doing it and monitor the reaction and it should be instructive.

um. sonja are you cheating on me? i warn you i have binoculars

i think it was your bad idea to tell him you wanted binoculars actually. how about hiring a private eye?