I have a fuck buddy who wants a 3some. He said he doesn't matter if the third party is a girl or a boy and that I should choose her/him. The problem is, I don't actually like other guys enough to have sex with them, and I'm too insecure to invite a girl along.
I told him I'll look for attractive people though cause I'm afraid if I say no he's gonna lose his "interest" in me.
I have feelings for this guy, and have had them since I was 16 years old. And I'm really content he's actually paying attention to me now even though I'd want more from him = a relationship.
Btw, he's 44 and I'm 20.
Any advice?

no

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Hell no. Get out. Not because he wants a threesome now, but because you're allowing yourself to get your emotions involved, and you want more. He's 44 toots, and he's fucking a 20 year old....now wants more, but you think he is considering a commited, stronger relationship or something? Fuck no, he's happy to be banging a young, tight little body.
That's the only reason a man of his age would be wanting a girl of yours.
You're the one in for some hurt, not him. Get out.

Advice? Stop allowing this man to use you.

^ as a 41 yr old i somewhat agree with zeke's post.

but i also sense you are really stupid and probably getting the man you deserve

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