My boyfriend of 3 years said he needs space....he said this after a long period of arguing and confusion over my big time jealousy issues and total clinginess. Now I don't feel he is trying to break up with me as since telling me he needs a break 3 days ago has sent me at least 5 emails, and we have spoken on the phone (him being the one who called) at least 3 times a day. So I am a bit confused. I THINK he is trying to say I need to stop my compulsive need to be around him 24 hours a day and just back up a bit. What I need to know is HOW do I do this? I DO obsess all the time about what he is doing, etc and am starting to truly believe I have forgotten about me- that I live through him. For the record I have toned down my calling, emailing, etc a ton to show him I can let him breath. Any advice or tips on how to handle this situation is greatly appreciated.

god, just DO IT? stop being so crackers? he obviously loves you and wants to be with you just not mental you?
go get threapy or something?

lol, high five
not that being mental is a bad thing, kinda like it?

yeah you're really being mental. and take it from someone who lost their 'one' (imo) because of mentalness, it's really ass to get over.

so just do it.

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how many blondes does it take to jump off the golden gate bridge?
none because kevin did it.

It's normal to develop attachment to your partner.

If you find a way to overcome obsessing over them, let me know lol, I could do with some of that.