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10-06-2008, 05:31 PM
|  | Registered Member | | Join Date: Oct 2008 Location: Canada
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| | Confusion & Shyness I recently graduated Elementry, 1 month ago.
I never believe in that thing called ' love at first sight '.
But I might be experiencing it...
Don't call me weird. But, I like this guy that's 2 grades higher then me.
But the main thing is... I can't make a move... I try, I want to, I must.
It's just I don't want to be hurt, and that I'm scared and overly shy.
I don't know if he will like me back you know? We have eye contact SOMETIMES. And the worst thing is, he might not even know me. I was in his class for a school thing.
And I got to watch him, and hold his hand for a game.  ...
But... Can you please tell me a [ GOOD, SLY, CLEVER ] plan.
P.S ~ I'm young, yes. But alot of people don't take me seriously. I'm alot mature then others. If you could notice. : /
And please don't tell me stuff like. ' JUST GIVE IT A CHANCE ' or ' JUST FACE HIM, DON'T BE SHY '.
Yeah... That's getting no where. | 
10-06-2008, 06:32 PM
|  | bedroom revolutionary | | Join Date: May 2007 Location: under neon loneliness
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| | | What does "graduated elementary" mean?
__________________ We shall abolish the orgasm. Our neurologists are at work upon it now. There will be no loyalty, except loyalty towards the Party. | 
10-06-2008, 06:51 PM
|  | is anonymous | | Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: O' England, my lionheart
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| | | Give it a chance. Just face him and don't be shy.
__________________ I'm Squarepusher, and I approved this message. | 
10-06-2008, 07:35 PM
|  | give me sweet, sweet soul | | Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: Scotland
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| | I just did a quick wikipedia search for elementary school and it tells me that elementary school most commonly ends at 5th grade, which is apparently 10/11 yrs old, but can go as high as 8th grade, which presumably is 13/14 yrs old.
Either way: 
__________________ Deux hommes font une promenade amicale. L'un des deux porte un parapluie à son bras.
Il se met à pleuvoir. L'homme n'ouvre pas son parapluie et l'autre lui demande pourquoi.
- Parce que ça ne servirait à rien, lui répond son ami. Il est plein de trous.
- Alors, pourquoi l'as-tu pris?
- Parce que je ne pensais pas qu'il pleuvrait. | 
10-06-2008, 07:38 PM
| | to know I'm alive | | Join Date: Apr 2007 Location: Ireland
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| | Quote:
Originally Posted by Squarepusher Give it a chance. Just face him and don't be shy. | Ha.
Seriously though, it is good advice.
It gets easier!
Whats the worst that could happen?
This happens to everyone!
There are loads of plans but ultimately, most people can see that they're just facades. be yourself - ie talk to him like he's not on a pedestal.
Dunno what else to say! | 
10-06-2008, 07:45 PM
|  | Blessed are the forgetful | | Join Date: Apr 2007 Location: New York
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| | | I thought I was in love when I was in 7th grade.
Hopefully by elementary you don't mean you are only 12....if you're even 12.
The best thing you can do, is make good friends with him. I feel like relationships have worked out, atleast for me, a lot easier once you've established a close friendship. If he doesn't want to get close to you, then I'd say it'd be hard for you and him to ever have a relationship...but you're young, and there are tons of other guys that will enter your life. If he does show a liking to you, I'd say just come out with it! It can sometimes take awhile, but being shy will only hold you back =].
Good luck. | 
10-06-2008, 11:20 PM
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| | Quote:
Originally Posted by Amity What does "graduated elementary" mean? | I think she means she's in grade seven, which would make her 12.
I would recommend talking to him about something, and see where it goes from there? You say that you were in his class and all that, so it wouldn't be too weird if you went up to him and started a conversation.
__________________ I'm filed up with aggression
Want to smash your television
Saturday night you watch TV
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10-06-2008, 11:35 PM
|  | I was Ruth ffs | | Join Date: Jul 2008 Location: In the Lake
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| | | write him a note with "you can put it anywhere" on it. | 
10-07-2008, 07:45 PM
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| | | I live in Canada. Which is when elementry ends at grade 6. | 
10-07-2008, 07:46 PM
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| | | Your no help. | 
10-07-2008, 08:13 PM
|  | bedroom revolutionary | | Join Date: May 2007 Location: under neon loneliness
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| | | That's because we all remember how serious everything seemed when we were 12. It's really not. Just enjoy semi-innocence, unless you're already a whore?
__________________ We shall abolish the orgasm. Our neurologists are at work upon it now. There will be no loyalty, except loyalty towards the Party. | 
10-07-2008, 09:18 PM
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| | | ... I never planned on liking someone early at my age.
You say things like I'm to young, more people ahead, I know.
This is what I mean by people not taking me seriously.
I have alot of problems happening right now, this one is the least. | 
10-07-2008, 09:19 PM
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| | Quote:
Originally Posted by DeadFag write him a note with "you can put it anywhere" on it. | I can do a note!!!!! What do you mean " you can put it anywhere"? | 
10-07-2008, 09:27 PM
|  | I was Ruth ffs | | Join Date: Jul 2008 Location: In the Lake
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| | If you don't know what that means, you're definitely too young for this!  | 
10-07-2008, 09:28 PM
|  | bedroom revolutionary | | Join Date: May 2007 Location: under neon loneliness
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| | Quote:
Originally Posted by DeadFag If you don't know what that means, you're definitely too young for this!  | Tsk Robbie, they want LOVE not SMUT.
__________________ We shall abolish the orgasm. Our neurologists are at work upon it now. There will be no loyalty, except loyalty towards the Party. | 
10-07-2008, 09:29 PM
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