when a relationship ends. and it ends badly. do you just let it be and move on?
or are you expecting something else?
i can't work out if things are better left broken and fucked up or if its better to get everythign off your chest and just out of you.
i don't knowhow much sense this makes sorry.

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.So maybe I should enlighten you on what happens in your absence. This selfish existence where this introvert turns extrovert and dons their social armor. I became the perfect party apprentice, with a PHD in sitting on kitchen counters and drawing my cheeks in and shooting you looks that I don't even mean. Hips that grind to scratchy indie hits and shoes that stick to nightclub floors...

it really depends on the situation and the person. i need to get it all off my chest, i can't keep it in. in fact i had to have one of these conversations last night and i feel much better that i did it rather then leaving things not said.

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i let it be. i had my friends to moan and bitch and cry with over it.

You have to think to yrself "in 6 months time would i be embarrased by what i said/did?" you have to keep some dignity even when they have taken it all from you by being a cunt. Even though its hard because deep inside you want them to know just how much of a shit they are and how much they hurt you, but if they dont realise it now then no matter how much you scream and shout at them they probably wont.ever. and you make things worse for yrself. Kinda adding to their ammo against you.

:/

dont worry when they get old and lonely they will think about it....and it will haunt them but its too late mwahahaha

this is ridiculously good advice. which i am sure at some point i will ignore and spill my guts and heart on the floor.
i guess the other side of it is if you do just let it all out and say what you feel you need to then the other person will just feel like death. which isnt really nice. well at least you hope they would feel like that

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.So maybe I should enlighten you on what happens in your absence. This selfish existence where this introvert turns extrovert and dons their social armor. I became the perfect party apprentice, with a PHD in sitting on kitchen counters and drawing my cheeks in and shooting you looks that I don't even mean. Hips that grind to scratchy indie hits and shoes that stick to nightclub floors...

well, i think before you let the relationship end completely both people need to talk things over and express how they feel.