... if someone said this to you?

Keep in mind that you've met this person only a few times, and haven't really talked to them at all. They've sent you nearly as random (but not quite) Facebook messages before and that's the extent of anything.

When he refers to being sick, he's talking about cancer (which he doesn't have anymore) and I have no clue what the Subway thing or the car thing is all about (I don't work at Subway and I haven't seen this guy in years)

He's friend's with my friend's ex-boyfriend, and I've heard that he had a hard time a while back and pretty much wanted to die (cancer takes it's toll?). Only the last I heard he is doing better and is back to his regular self. This seems too fucked up and creepy to me though. I don't know what to say to this guy????????

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it is fucked up
but don't let it creep you out
i wouldnt say anything personally
and dont feel bad about it
if he asks you later just say it confused you and you didnt know what to say and leave it at that
i hate it when people take it upon themselves to unload their messed up brain on me, that sounds about like what he did

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should i choose a noble occupation
if i did i'd only show up late and sick
and they would stare at me with hatred
plus my only natural talent's wasted

maybe he accidently sent that message to you instead of the person it was meant for. those things that you have no idea what he's talking about are pretty specific.

hes trying to be poetic & wimsical.tell him 2 stfu

No, I don't think that's it. I know when he's talking about the parker party that he actually did see my friend's. One of them told me they saw him there. The dyed hair part is also a pretty big clue that it's actually to me.

I don't think I'll reply though, after thinking about it. There's nothing I can say that wont come across as a bitch. Not that I owe this guy anything, but I don't want to just tell him off. If I don't say anything maybe he'll get over this strange thing of his and meet someone nice haha.

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Tell him you don't understand anything he's saying. Maybe he'll consider you feeble minded compared to him and want to move on
I don't understand it either, honestly. He sounds like this schizo guy I know.

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If you are Canadian, there is a 30% chance you are already in Broken Social Scene

i was going to say this. trust your gut feeling.

my advice is don't respond at all. if you ever see him, act like you don't know him & don't say anything. you don't owe him jack. he sounds like a stalker i know.

So I ended up replying after all. I said:

Not to be rude or anything, I'm just kind of confused here...

You say you have this creation of who I am, but I'm probably nothing like the image you have of me. I'm not sure we've even talked in person before, so I don't think you know too much about who I am.

Although I'm flattered, I just find this kind of weird. I mean, you're a nice guy and all but that's just a little intense.

No hard feelings, & take care of yourself,

Emma

Not exactly what I'd like to say, but I was trying not to be too rude.

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That was a good response. I'd probably just have locked myself in my room.

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I just don't want him to send me anymore

Months back he sent me some, then deleted his Facebook I guess. Or just deleted me as a friend. Then a month ago he started sending me some messages that were pretty weird, but not nearly as creepy as that last one.

I dunno, I hope he's not too heart broken over this. It's fucking crazy how many people "love" people they don't even know. This just happened to my friend where she became friends with this guy and as soon as she broke up with her boyfriend he was like, "I've loved you for over a year, blah, blah, blah." That guy still hasn't gotten the hint that she isn't interested.

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engage him

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you'll go to hell for what your dirty mind is thinking

Hahahah no thanks, he's not exactly what I'm looking for.

He replied with this:

"I know what I've seen. You are your actions."

Whhaattttt????????

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haha is he a stoner?

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you'll go to hell for what your dirty mind is thinking

I think he still is.

I know he was, and then he got cancer and stopped. Pretty sure he's back at it though.

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Seriously, are you sure he isn't schizophrenic?

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If you are Canadian, there is a 30% chance you are already in Broken Social Scene

"my" stalker used any bit of info i gave out against me.

he knew i had intense feelings for him, mostly disgust & pity. he'd get up in my face & i told him to get the hell away from me & stfu. he got off on it. and tried to get me evicted from my apt., arrested, and more.

please, don't give him any more energy.

i keep hearing the god damn shitty as ever DAVE MATTHEWS BAND SONG everytime i read the title.

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i am kesh's ungeniune and surreal irritation.

lol...same here. FUCK Dave Mathews and his Yuppieass, Birkenstock/tie-dyed t-shirt/fanny pack wearin'/hackey sack playin' BareNaked Ladies lovin' jerkoff fans.

Emmah, he does sound kinda schizo. No kind of chemo could've caused that. Tread carefully with that one.

Woah, sincere apologies about the Dave Matthews Band song as a title. I fucking hate Dave Matthews (and the Bare Naked Ladies)

I honestly wouldn't be surprised if this guy was schizo, he reminds me a lot of this other schizo guy I know. Plus he's around that age where schizophrenia starts to come out.

Who knows though, I mean I don't ahah. He's always been kind of strange from what I've heard, and "deep" That doesn't mean he's not nuts though.

Anyways, I'm done with talking to him. Said what I had to say and that's that

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