| party-attending etiquette would you ever go to a party where you didn't know the host or anyone else, except for one acquaintance?
a friend of a good friend of mine is a dj. we talk about music everytime we meet, but we are not close--just acquaintances. (i would like to get to know him better though, because he is a really interesting person.) this guy invited me to a party to which he is dj'ing at on halloween, except the problem is that i don't know anyone else on the guest list at all.
that leaves me with two options, and i want you to decide for me what i should do:
1. i can stay in on halloween, or make some other plans with people i actually know.
2. i can go and muster up the courage to attend anyways and introduce myself to everybody around me. maybe i should bring a friend along so that i have someone else to talk to, and i will also have a good exit strategy just in case if i feel too awkward. i should also probably get an awesome costume too, so that people would be thinking 'hey! who's that? that is amazing..' (you get the idea). would it be weird if i did this??
i am kind of a shy person, so that is why i am asking for help from you guys. what would you do? |