mm. so theres this guy that my friend introduced me too. and in the past few weeks hes made it clear hes got this creepy thing for her. hes totally infatuated with her. and now hes trying to make nice with everyone shes friends with. hes getting everyones numbers and calling them non-stop like 'HEY HEY YOU WANNA HANG OUT? WANNA? CMON WANNA HANG OUT?'

hes a nice enough guy and hes never given me any reason to tell him to **** off. but the thing is he is unbearably ****ing boring.
so normally when this happens ill just be really short with the person 'oh im busy, sry. nope, busy, cant hang out.' and then whoever it is thats up my *** all the time, will naturally take a hint.
but i swear this guys perserverance is ****ing AMAZING, he does NOT know how to take a hint. the other day he called me and asked if i wanted to hang out with him. i just told him some bull**** like 'oh sry man, im having a day of solitude'. he then proceeds to bribe me with coffee or some ****, not once but twice. 'ill buy you coffee'. 'no thanks'. 'pleaseee ill buy you coffee!' "no please dont, bye.'

he cannot take a hint. and what it comes down to is hes a good guy. hes just not someone i wanna hang out with.

i dont wanna openly be a ***** and say something like 'oh dont talk to me yr dry ****.' cause he doesnt seem to be aware of the fact that hes dull and he cant help it.

it would be soo easy to brush him if hed take hints, but since he doesnt im kinda at a loss with this situation.

advice?
similar situations?

he's autistic isnt he

just say, G2F. its the only way they'll learn

stop answering his phone calls.

Was my advice not good enough ?

*makes a face that's not part of the kr smilies*

1.ignore him, completely, no contact at all, even ignore him in person, completely cut him off
2.if it doesn't work, you have to be blunt. It's rude...

only things that guarantee his disappearance....(other than offing him >.>)

Somebody should tell him he's too boring to gang out with. I bet he can't not get it.