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08-31-2008, 07:31 PM
|  | faghag | | Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: it varies.
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| | | you are fucking boring.
mm. so theres this guy that my friend introduced me too. and in the past few weeks hes made it clear hes got this creepy thing for her. hes totally infatuated with her. and now hes trying to make nice with everyone shes friends with. hes getting everyones numbers and calling them non-stop like 'HEY HEY YOU WANNA HANG OUT? WANNA? CMON WANNA HANG OUT?'
hes a nice enough guy and hes never given me any reason to tell him to fuck off. but the thing is he is unbearably fucking boring.
so normally when this happens ill just be really short with the person 'oh im busy, sry. nope, busy, cant hang out.' and then whoever it is thats up my ass all the time, will naturally take a hint.
but i swear this guys perserverance is fucking AMAZING, he does NOT know how to take a hint. the other day he called me and asked if i wanted to hang out with him. i just told him some bullshit like 'oh sry man, im having a day of solitude'. he then proceeds to bribe me with coffee or some shit, not once but twice. 'ill buy you coffee'. 'no thanks'. 'pleaseee ill buy you coffee!' "no please dont, bye.'
he cannot take a hint. and what it comes down to is hes a good guy. hes just not someone i wanna hang out with.
i dont wanna openly be a bitch and say something like 'oh dont talk to me yr dry shit.' cause he doesnt seem to be aware of the fact that hes dull and he cant help it.
it would be soo easy to brush him if hed take hints, but since he doesnt im kinda at a loss with this situation.
advice?
similar situations?
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08-31-2008, 08:03 PM
|  | x_x | | Join Date: Oct 2007
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| | | he's autistic isnt he
just say, G2F. its the only way they'll learn |
08-31-2008, 08:04 PM
|  | chanel meth pipe. | | Join Date: Apr 2008 Location: 7th ring of hell?
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| | | stop answering his phone calls.
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08-31-2008, 08:06 PM
|  | Blessed are the forgetful | | Join Date: Apr 2007 Location: New York
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| | | Was my advice not good enough ?
*makes a face that's not part of the kr smilies*
1.ignore him, completely, no contact at all, even ignore him in person, completely cut him off
2.if it doesn't work, you have to be blunt. It's rude...
only things that guarantee his disappearance....(other than offing him >.>)
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08-31-2008, 08:14 PM
|  | Nazi punks fuck off! | | Join Date: Jul 2006 Location: Bucharest, Romania
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| | | Somebody should tell him he's too boring to gang out with. I bet he can't not get it. |
08-31-2008, 08:20 PM
| | faghag | | Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: it varies.
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| | Quote:
Originally Posted by CuntCake  Was my advice not good enough ?
*makes a face that's not part of the kr smilies* | oh c'mon man, i heard you out and
it was good advice,.like you said normally the only way to get someone to fuck off is to ignore them or flat out tell them. and thats true.
but neither seems to work with him. im trying really hard to get rid of him without being a total megabitch about it, but hes resistant to social ques.
when i ignore him, he starts talking to all my friends saying shit like 'OMG IS SHE OK?? IS SHE OK??' or ill get emails/ims like 'ARE YOU ALRIGHT?' meanwhile ALL im doing is not speaking with him, there are no red flags, no reason for concern.
and ive been tempted to just be like 'NO, NO IM NOT OK, THERES BEEN A HORRIFIC ACCIDENT!! I CANT TALK ABOUT IT RIGHT NOW!!!' . except drapppped in sarcasm.
but i dont think hed get it 
ohwell. i may have to resort to bitchery...
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08-31-2008, 08:23 PM
| | Blessed are the forgetful | | Join Date: Apr 2007 Location: New York
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| | | eh if you get everyone he asks in on it they'll eventually say "dude, she wants nothing to do with you, stop"
yeah bitchery seems like it =/
KR and Aim simotaneously...we're gay.
keyofcmaybeg (8:21:01 PM): oh lol i just responded to the last one
cxntcake (8:23:42 PM): I replied |
08-31-2008, 08:24 PM
|  | hole.com kid since 2000 | | Join Date: Jun 2006
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| | | i feel sorry for him. also for you. but more for him |
08-31-2008, 08:26 PM
| | faghag | | Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: it varies.
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Originally Posted by CuntCake KR and Aim simotaneously...we're gay. | no doubt.
we're like those people that wont talk to each other even when they're in the same room, cause theyve both got unlimited texting.... almost as bad. possibly worse.
& cyanideeyes, i hear you.
i feel bad for him also. and i feel guilty, that im gonna have to be blunt with him, but i am soo creeped.
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08-31-2008, 08:31 PM
| | chanel meth pipe. | | Join Date: Apr 2008 Location: 7th ring of hell?
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| | | haha did you used to be keyofcmaybeg on here?
i never realized that.
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08-31-2008, 08:34 PM
| | faghag | | Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: it varies.
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Originally Posted by shitty weave haha did you used to be keyofcmaybeg on here?
i never realized that. | nahh, i saw it awhile ago and was just like 'aww man i love that'.
so then when i made a new sn aim i kinda just theifed it cause i have no spine  
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08-31-2008, 08:37 PM
| | chanel meth pipe. | | Join Date: Apr 2008 Location: 7th ring of hell?
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| | | haha right on <3
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08-31-2008, 08:45 PM
|  | let me borrow that top | | Join Date: Aug 2007
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| | | guys are retarded like that |
08-31-2008, 11:09 PM
|  | sugar britches | | Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: here. in my head
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| | | if he is generally a good guy there is no need to be a superbitch to him. i mean, just tell him that you are busy. or screen your calls. or go hang out with him one time. he may surprise you. you never know. |
08-31-2008, 11:12 PM
|  | bedroom revolutionary | | Join Date: May 2007 Location: under neon loneliness
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| | | Give him one date, then tell him he's not your type? At least you get a free coffee out of it.
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09-01-2008, 01:02 PM
|  | ShortOrderCookOnABender | | Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: reading
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| | | get your friend to tell him she's not interested in him. then hopefully he'll leave all her friends alone too.
in the meantime i'd suggest some hardcore ignoring. just don't answer his calls. i've known a couple of people like this and it really fucks me off, you drop polite little hint after polite little hint and it goes on for weeks and they don't get it and it just does your head in and it gets to the stage where you want to destroy your phone just so they'll stop ringing it. |
09-01-2008, 05:06 PM
|  | pioneering new emotions | | Join Date: Jan 2008 Location: nTown, UK
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Originally Posted by catatonicx mm. so theres this guy that my friend introduced me too. and in the past few weeks hes made it clear hes got this creepy thing for her. hes totally infatuated with her. and now hes trying to make nice with everyone shes friends with. hes getting everyones numbers and calling them non-stop like 'HEY HEY YOU WANNA HANG OUT? WANNA? CMON WANNA HANG OUT?' | Is it possible that these two things are unrelated? I'm just wondering. Not that it's relevant as your thread is mostly about the guy being boring and clingy. |
09-01-2008, 05:19 PM
|  | I'm gay ur sad lets fuck! | | Join Date: Aug 2008 Location: England
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| | | You could take him out for a night on the lash and show the boring fucker how it's done. Take picks when he piss' him self and/or give him pikalax in a shot and take picks when he shits himself. I'm sure he won't bother you again after that ^_^ Personnaly I'd go for the pikalax option
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09-01-2008, 05:21 PM
| | I'm gay ur sad lets fuck! | | Join Date: Aug 2008 Location: England
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| | | And if you go with the pikalax option please post them here ^_^ Believe me it'll be five pounds worth spent and thats for three pouches
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09-01-2008, 05:25 PM
| | pioneering new emotions | | Join Date: Jan 2008 Location: nTown, UK
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| | Boring people can be a lot of hassle. You think you can ignore them, but you can't, and because it was your idea to bring him out, no-one will take him off your hands. It's a lot easier to just make sure you have plans that are totally prohibitive to him joining in, like that you're having an Anne Summers party or something.
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