hehe yeah a bit of a light hearted thread as a counterpoint to all the relationship trauma here.

Do you/how do you flirt? Do you consciously do it or does it just come naturally? Do you use "techniques"? Do you follow the advice of Tracey Cox and her ilk? (I think they're 99% full of shit)

Or are you like me, fairly hopeless

Discuss.

Well I always get told i'm flirting with guys when I haven't meant to, i've often been told i'm flirting with girls actually, haha. So I guess it comes naturally for me. However, the fact that I don't know when I'm doing it gets me into some sticky situations

i have no idea how to SERIOUSLY flirt....
i just say things like, i hope you will marry me one day..i think im falling in love with you..
so yeah...i dont ACTUALLY know what to do...because even if they play my game..i wont meet up with them after
BUT, after seeing a boy for the 3rd time and playing the same game, i MIGHT meet up with him because he got all serious and said he was sad i never wanted to see him just me and him
so now im freaking out because i actually have FORGOTTEN how to normally NORMALLY flirt
but you obviously dont know..so i dont even know what im TALKING about

i'm a terrible flirt unless it's someon i know.

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I tend to insult people. I don't know why. It's a terrible way to flirt. But I think I'm funny. And even if it doesn't work as a chat up technique I'll get a laugh.