is it worth the risk of taking it further?
i only know the positive side as, my ex who i was best friends with to begin with, became my boyfriend/fiance for 3 years and now we have been split up sinse july last yr, weve been in touch right thru and now we are best friends again after a rocky few months.so this was cool.
but what about if friends kiss then it leads to sex, both knowing there will be no relationship? much complication?

ive been friends with a guy for a while and we kissed few weeks ago,(we both told each other we like them more than a friend) a week afterwards he said we have to stop as it will lead to other things and ruin the friendship..so it stopped.last week he was very flirty, to the point of talking dirty, then this week we kissed again. he is convinced i want a relationship but i dont know why he thinks this..anyway, what do you think? is it ok to be kissing a friend without harming the friendship?

I could see it being fun, especially if drunk, but it does sound a bit risky. Maybe you should only make out with friends of the same sex (or, if gay, of the opposite sex). Just for funs. It seems safer. Bi people are fucked, obviously.

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so you're talking straight up casual sex with a friend? can you two really handle that? what do your mutual friends think? when he finds someone he's interested in really dating next week will you get jealous?

i've done this with a few friends. i mean, to me friends are friends for a reason and if they're hott then well OK. like if i were to meet someone that i find really attractive and then find out their personality is right on then we'd end up making out, so to me it's kinda only natural that it happen with a friend. and taking it further... well i PREFER this situation over almost any other sex, but you've got to be for real about what's really going on. i had no problem when other girls came into the picture and they felt the same with me and other guys. and it wasn't uncommon for us to set each other up with other people which would sometimes be weird for that other person, but whatev. i'm still friends with those guys and i can't say the same for 98% of my ex boyfriends or even guys i simply dated.

Try not to go beyond flirting
If you can't manage that, maybe you shouldn't be friends

Flashing friends > kissing friends. Kissing can slowly turn into touching and eventually fucking. Wapping a tit or a testicle out pretty much never does.