| I think you should try make the date it as casual an experience as possible. Like, try not to treat it as a "date" date, just a casual meeting of two people with no intentions to start a relationship together, but rather to just hang out and talk and have a laugh. If you're assertive and don't show any signs of knowing that it's more than that, then the guy will comply with your attitude and it'll be fine.
How old are you btw? |