OK guys, this is the weirdest situation I have ever been in.

So, I posted an ad online to get to know some guys in the area. Im bi and I am looking to get to know some other guys who are. Not sex, just talking.

Anyway, I get a response from my sisters ex-boyfriend! I always knew he was gay and many of my sisters friends and other people claim he is as well. He basically said he’s been with a few guys and definitely liked it. Of course, I was using an alias name.

The thing is, he claims he wants to “marry” my sister and he’s in love with her. He sent her flowers and little gifts when he was overseas, and he’s back for good in the US now. He told me he fooled around with 2 guys while in the military and also before he left, which is when he and my sister were dating. SO basically he cheated on her.
While they were dating he was very unaffectionate and cold. He lived about 15 minutes away but they never hung out. He was always “cleaning his room” or “out of gas money.” No, I think he was fucking the guy around the corner from his house, like he told me he did before he left.

I only emailed him back to get the scoop because I want to know if he cheated on my sister (which I think he did). My sister is very fragile and emotional and I don’t want her getting hurt by this prick. I think he only wants her as a cover up.

I talked to a friend about this and he said not to say anything because I should let them figure their shit out. And it would also put me in a weird spot as well.

But I don’t want her getting hurt. See, my sister has a new bf but she claims this other guy is her one true love. Her current boyfriend def, thinks this guy is gay, as do I.

Advice?

tell him to stay away from your sister as she's gonna get hurt.

he's clearly messed up.

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Well, the thing is he doesnt know he was talking to me, but I made damn well sure to say to him that he should NOT lead girls on if he enjoys sex with men. I told him it would be really fucked up and he agreed.

But who knows what the fucker will really do.

tell him who you are!!!

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Im really not sure I want to do that.

What I was thinking was this: tell my sister I have a very reliable source that knows about his secret sex life?

I mean, he told me he had sex with a close friend when he was really young and if hes still doing it now hes clearly gay.