Myself and my boyfriend are lucky in the sense that we share the same friends and have yet to get sick of each other after two and a half years. Unfortunately, quite recently, a gilfriend of one of our friends has become extremely jealous of me for some reason. I'm staple in a group of friens where I can only see each of our roles in the group as egalitarian. There's no biased relationship (apart from myself and my boyfriend of course). This girl gets annoyed that our friend only spends every second day with her and gets slightly miffed when he tells her he's been hanging with his friends. This escalates to mad when he mentions my name and results in a hang up or a good telling off.
Now, I've never cheated on my boyfriend and I don't intend to either so I don't see why she should be jealous of me. I don't want to get my friend in trouble or have his 3 year relationship end, but I don't want to lose him as a friend either seeing as we go way back. Help!

Braggart!

My boyfriend doesn't have enough friends, so I'm going to lend him some of mine. If we ever broke up I guess we would then have to share, but I'd be okay with it. And, sweetly, I don't think we'll ever break up. I really don't.

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Tell er to get the fuck over it.
Shes prob just realised shes ugly or her bf has a crush on you or something.

I hate jealousy.. it makes things so difficult.

I used to be an incredibly jealous person and am now dating someone who deals with it as well. I have a really close guy friend who has a very serious girlfriend who I'm also friends with, but he and I hang out more than she and I do. God forbid I mention his name first when I list off a group of people to my boyfriend.

I find that usually jealous people know they're being unreasonable, but that lack of self-esteem voice tricks them into thinking it's their intuition that's telling them to look out. At least, that's what I've found with myself.

Maybe getting him to talk to her about what's going on and how she's feeling.. are you close with this girl at all? Maybe more one on one time with her may help? good luck.

She's pretty hot so I don't get where her insecurities are coming from.

I have no feelings for her boyfriend but my boyfriend thinks this guy used to have a crush on me years ago.

I'm pretty sure that's not an issue now though.

i'm the "girl" in my group of friends, so every girlfriend that ever comes into our group is always jelous. I just make sure they feel as much of a part of the group as i can, usually works.

Whatever her reasons for acting this way it probably has little to do with you, it's either her boyfriend that's bothering her or her own insecurities. I'd say just keep your friendship as normal and try and be friends with the girl if you can, maybe include her when you are all doing stuff as a group?

She's just so different to all of us....really girly - likes pink.

And she doesn't like hanging out with us.

She has expressed this many a time to her boyfriend.

yea fair enough if she doesn't want to hang about with yous, I'm just imagining myself in her place, why she might be acting the way she is, she's probably a bit insecure- though on the other hand maybe she's very controlling. Either way you come out on top if you are nice to her.

She might have different intrests but she's still human! Most people just want to get on with folk, especially their boyfriends friends.

It also seems like you are very much a third party in this drama so if you're really pissed off with it just remove yourself entirely, let your friend deal with her.
I can sympathise though, it's awful to see friends getting walked over by their girlfriends/boyfriends.

Well what makes it less awkward is that myself my boyfriend and our friends are all moving in together this month without her.

Today when we were having coffee, she rang him and as soon as she heard my voice in the background, she hung up and sent him abusive texts all night.

We all just feel so sorry for him.

To be honest, if you've not done anything to warrant this reaction, she sounds like a bit of a nut job.