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Old 03-25-2008, 07:04 PM
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We're just friends!

Myself and my boyfriend are lucky in the sense that we share the same friends and have yet to get sick of each other after two and a half years. Unfortunately, quite recently, a gilfriend of one of our friends has become extremely jealous of me for some reason. I'm staple in a group of friens where I can only see each of our roles in the group as egalitarian. There's no biased relationship (apart from myself and my boyfriend of course). This girl gets annoyed that our friend only spends every second day with her and gets slightly miffed when he tells her he's been hanging with his friends. This escalates to mad when he mentions my name and results in a hang up or a good telling off.
Now, I've never cheated on my boyfriend and I don't intend to either so I don't see why she should be jealous of me. I don't want to get my friend in trouble or have his 3 year relationship end, but I don't want to lose him as a friend either seeing as we go way back. Help!

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Old 03-25-2008, 10:57 PM
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Braggart!

My boyfriend doesn't have enough friends, so I'm going to lend him some of mine. If we ever broke up I guess we would then have to share, but I'd be okay with it. And, sweetly, I don't think we'll ever break up. I really don't.
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Tell er to get the fuck over it.
Shes prob just realised shes ugly or her bf has a crush on you or something.
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I hate jealousy.. it makes things so difficult.

I used to be an incredibly jealous person and am now dating someone who deals with it as well. I have a really close guy friend who has a very serious girlfriend who I'm also friends with, but he and I hang out more than she and I do. God forbid I mention his name first when I list off a group of people to my boyfriend.

I find that usually jealous people know they're being unreasonable, but that lack of self-esteem voice tricks them into thinking it's their intuition that's telling them to look out. At least, that's what I've found with myself.

Maybe getting him to talk to her about what's going on and how she's feeling.. are you close with this girl at all? Maybe more one on one time with her may help? good luck.
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She's pretty hot so I don't get where her insecurities are coming from.

I have no feelings for her boyfriend but my boyfriend thinks this guy used to have a crush on me years ago.

I'm pretty sure that's not an issue now though.
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