'wants to wait until he's ready'

does that mean hes a keeper or i mean, weird

ive never waited before

does that mean im a slag?

oh ghad.

i thought boys came out of the womb ready

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it means he *might* be shock horror a nice guy....which is great if you want him to sit at home having a nice cup of tea with your mum...

I don't think it means that he is a nice guy or a freak or that you're a slag. I've known a couple of boys who were like that. Wait, do you mean he is waiting to lose his virginity or to sleep with you?

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is he a virgin?

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no no never say maybe to smack bunny baby again.

I think we need some more details about him and about your relationship with him. He's someone you've been seeing or someone you're interested in? I think the one thing we can tell from it so far is that he's not simply after a fuck and run and might want a proper relationship with you...

i said 'have you never had sex before then?' and he said 'well, yeah, just not with you' so he's not a virgin.

he's someone ive been seeing for 3 days now oh ghad im a slag. well like, ive spent about a day of that time in bed with him (no exaggeration btw ive barely been at home this weekend) just cuddling and kissing and talking.

actually i dont even know if im SEEING him i keep meaning to ask since idont want to assume.

its weird, he's like this properly laddish type and his friends are all absolute manwhores and he's just really diff to them.

i really like this one.

Maybe just try and slow yourself down? Some people want it to matter who they sleep with or whatever. Its only been three days!

SPENT IN BED is like the point im making. spent in bed DOING STUFF.

It's probably less to do with him being a "nice guy" or "weird" and more to do with him being a bit shy and unsure about sex.

i.e. "not ready".

It's not rocket science.

Could be a religious thing.

I've just had a friend encounter this problem.

So weird.

Like other people have said, slow it down a bit. I mean ok so you've done stuff but he has indicated that he's not ready to have sex with you yet..so, yeah just go with the flow for now, it'll happen. I mean if you'd been with him for six months or something then yeah, might be time to have a chat with him but I wouldn't stress about it for now.

i don't think it's weird or anything. some people just wait longer than others, that's all.

i had a guy give me the religious objection after watching Teeth with him in the movie theater. It was quite a surreal moment in my life.

he's not exactly a keeper..
i mean, three days
is this relationship purely for sex?

I think he's lying about the virgin thing

wait means warning signs everywhere!!!!!

More than likely though he is just ove3r emotional, which is the kind of guy I hate. Over emotional means overly clingy and you never get your own space.
Or maybe something has happened to him making him more closed off to people and he can't reveal that part of himself to you yet because some poeople see it as complete vunrability
or maybe he is gay, which was just the obvious suggestions but either way not worth it.. If there is a wait there is complication

SCREW THAT!

Maybe it's a good thing? Maybe it means he's serious about you, or that he only wants to sleep with girls he has real feelings for?

It isn't weird imo. Just wait and see what happens.

hes going to bust out some weird horse fetish shit when you finally get him in the sack.

watch.

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Just go along with it. Jeez, three whole days... I mean, it's natural to think he might not be serious, because we're all so used to boys being big ol' sluts. But nah, hang onto him for a while. He probably just wants it to be special.

That said, if he's still holding out on you in another week, you should definitely rape him twice.