Kittyradio Forums
Go Back   Kittyradio Forums > relationships > love & relationships


Reply
 
LinkBack Thread Tools Display Modes
  #1  
Old 03-23-2008, 07:29 AM
cherrypony's Avatar
now in Awesome flavor(tm)
 
Join Date: Apr 2006
Location: perth,WA,planet earth
Posts: 18
cherrypony will become famous soon enough cherrypony will become famous soon enough
my bf is attracted to younger girls

i have been seeing this guy for 5 months, we live together and in general have a very fun relationship without arguments (then again we havent been together for very long). He is sensitive and sweet and all that jazz, i really do like him and enjoy spending time with him now lets cut to the chase. Before he was with me ( we are both 22) he pretty much only dated younger chicks...like 15/16 (its legal in australia if theyre over 16. i and his friends have all told him to stick to the legal age and even though he has been with a 15 yr old, he swore that it would never happen again and he wasnt thinking straight at the time. ) Ok fair enough, i forgave him, moved on, and i went through the history for yesterday and the day before on my laptop because i was looking for some site i had been to, and lo and behold, on friday he googled "virgin schoolgirls" and saturday moved onto the darkside "emo xxx school girls naughty". Nice work joe.
I dont really mind him watching porn (it seemed to have been when i was at work.) but we have sex often anyway (1 to 3 times a day). If only he had searched for anal or lesbians or something
did it have to be virgins? all the porn he looked at (i had a peek) were of very young looking girls. Fantasy only? Maybe. But he had never had a gf his own age before.

Im worried. Is this a deal breaker? Anyone with similar experiences? I dont think hes a pedo. just sick.

Reply With Quote
  #2  
Old 03-23-2008, 08:11 AM
dollie_midget's Avatar
old gregg?
 
Join Date: Oct 2007
Posts: 1,071
dollie_midget has a reputation beyond repute dollie_midget has a reputation beyond repute dollie_midget has a reputation beyond repute dollie_midget has a reputation beyond repute dollie_midget has a reputation beyond repute dollie_midget has a reputation beyond repute dollie_midget has a reputation beyond repute dollie_midget has a reputation beyond repute dollie_midget has a reputation beyond repute dollie_midget has a reputation beyond repute dollie_midget has a reputation beyond repute
mm
Stay with him
Just don't get too involved, k?
Reply With Quote
  #3  
Old 03-23-2008, 08:28 AM
sick of you's Avatar
afflicted
 
Join Date: Mar 2007
Location: chicago
Posts: 369
sick of you has a reputation beyond repute sick of you has a reputation beyond repute sick of you has a reputation beyond repute sick of you has a reputation beyond repute sick of you has a reputation beyond repute sick of you has a reputation beyond repute sick of you has a reputation beyond repute sick of you has a reputation beyond repute sick of you has a reputation beyond repute sick of you has a reputation beyond repute sick of you has a reputation beyond repute
dark side, indeed.

straight men are just gross, really. /
Reply With Quote
  #4  
Old 03-23-2008, 08:37 AM
Rehab's Avatar
Guera
 
Join Date: Jun 2007
Location: Surrey, UK
Posts: 533
Rehab has a reputation beyond repute Rehab has a reputation beyond repute Rehab has a reputation beyond repute Rehab has a reputation beyond repute Rehab has a reputation beyond repute Rehab has a reputation beyond repute Rehab has a reputation beyond repute Rehab has a reputation beyond repute Rehab has a reputation beyond repute Rehab has a reputation beyond repute Rehab has a reputation beyond repute
Send a message via Yahoo to Rehab
I have a friend who is a bit like this. Get out. NOW.
Reply With Quote
  #5  
Old 03-23-2008, 08:50 AM
Silvine's Avatar
I'll give it 5!
 
Join Date: Apr 2006
Location: Dead or Alive
Posts: 3,562
Silvine has a reputation beyond repute Silvine has a reputation beyond repute Silvine has a reputation beyond repute Silvine has a reputation beyond repute Silvine has a reputation beyond repute Silvine has a reputation beyond repute Silvine has a reputation beyond repute Silvine has a reputation beyond repute Silvine has a reputation beyond repute Silvine has a reputation beyond repute Silvine has a reputation beyond repute
Send a message via MSN to Silvine
Well, my opinion is that guys tend to go through pornographic phases. They may last years but usually pitter out in the end. It sounds like this guy is into young girls - but that does not make him a paedophile because paedophiles are into single digit females. Take 1-9 years old.

So, that said, it could be an emotional issue for your boyfriend. Perhaps he is attracted to the innocence of youth, or perhaps they make him feel young again since he is getting old and this is his way of coping with death and the idea of growing up.

Also, perhaps these girls are more on his level and he feels less pressure with them because for instance they do not have to deal with paying the bills, doing a 9-5 job, responsibility and stuff. They seem care free which most are I guess. I know when I was 16 my only worry was getting into college.

Anyways, I doubt this is anything to worry about - I feel your fear stems from the fact that you are not that age and perhaps do not feel like you are attractive to him deep down. But rememeber, as you both get older together you will have a history there that binds you together and you will be stronger to deal with this rejection of him looking at virgins.

If you want you could always buy a school girls uniform to dress up for him in the bedroom to show that you are cool with this - like a white shirt, tie, short black skirt, and black tights. Even a bag to carry lol with lollipop

Anyways - like I said only start to worry if you find pictures of pre-teens on the computer because it may come to this and you are right to keep a check on the browser history. Dont stop doing that and if you find any preteens on there talk to him about it. Confront him to seek help for that but only that and not when they are 15-16 cause like in the UK 16 is the legal age of consent last I checked and no one really bothers when a guy dates a young girl of that age only some think that the guy must be wacked if he cannot get a girl his own age.

peace
Reply With Quote
Reply

Tags
attracted , girls , younger

Thread Tools
Display Modes

Posting Rules
You may not post new threads
You may not post replies
You may not post attachments
You may not edit your posts

BB code is On
Smilies are On
[IMG] code is On
HTML code is Off
Trackbacks are On
Pingbacks are On
Refbacks are On


Similar Threads
Thread Thread Starter Forum Replies Last Post
husband looks at porn RebelRocker love & relationships 208 06-10-2009 10:32 AM
Girls killed best friend because it "just felt right". FunHappyGal news & politics 24 05-08-2007 02:00 PM
Baby, Give Me a Kiss (Girls Gone Wild) daisymum news & politics 11 08-09-2006 10:30 AM

 
Forum Stats
Members: 16,669
Threads: 48,558
Posts: 1,285,465
Total Online: 105

Newest Member: mobileshop

Follow Kittyradio

Latest Threads
- by .3.
- by DeadFag



All times are GMT -7. The time now is 10:07 AM.

Top

Powered by vBulletin® Version 3.8.4
Copyright ©2000 - 2009, Jelsoft Enterprises Ltd.
Search Engine Optimization by vBSEO 3.3.2

Site content: Copyright © 2006-2008 kittyradio.com
Any unauthorized usage and/or quotations from this site on other web sites
or in the press are copyright violations and will be pursued as such.
Violators will be prosecuted under United States copyright laws.