i have been seeing this guy for 5 months, we live together and in general have a very fun relationship without arguments (then again we havent been together for very long). He is sensitive and sweet and all that jazz, i really do like him and enjoy spending time with him now lets cut to the chase. Before he was with me ( we are both 22) he pretty much only dated younger chicks...like 15/16 (its legal in australia if theyre over 16. i and his friends have all told him to stick to the legal age and even though he has been with a 15 yr old, he swore that it would never happen again and he wasnt thinking straight at the time. ) Ok fair enough, i forgave him, moved on, and i went through the history for yesterday and the day before on my laptop because i was looking for some site i had been to, and lo and behold, on friday he googled "virgin schoolgirls" and saturday moved onto the darkside "emo xxx school girls naughty". Nice work joe.
I dont really mind him watching porn (it seemed to have been when i was at work.) but we have sex often anyway (1 to 3 times a day). If only he had searched for anal or lesbians or something
did it have to be virgins? all the porn he looked at (i had a peek) were of very young looking girls. Fantasy only? Maybe. But he had never had a gf his own age before.

Im worried. Is this a deal breaker? Anyone with similar experiences? I dont think hes a pedo. just sick.

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Stay with him
Just don't get too involved, k?

dark side, indeed.

straight men are just gross, really. /

I have a friend who is a bit like this. Get out. NOW.

Well, my opinion is that guys tend to go through pornographic phases. They may last years but usually pitter out in the end. It sounds like this guy is into young girls - but that does not make him a paedophile because paedophiles are into single digit females. Take 1-9 years old.

So, that said, it could be an emotional issue for your boyfriend. Perhaps he is attracted to the innocence of youth, or perhaps they make him feel young again since he is getting old and this is his way of coping with death and the idea of growing up.

Also, perhaps these girls are more on his level and he feels less pressure with them because for instance they do not have to deal with paying the bills, doing a 9-5 job, responsibility and stuff. They seem care free which most are I guess. I know when I was 16 my only worry was getting into college.

Anyways, I doubt this is anything to worry about - I feel your fear stems from the fact that you are not that age and perhaps do not feel like you are attractive to him deep down. But rememeber, as you both get older together you will have a history there that binds you together and you will be stronger to deal with this rejection of him looking at virgins.

If you want you could always buy a school girls uniform to dress up for him in the bedroom to show that you are cool with this - like a white shirt, tie, short black skirt, and black tights. Even a bag to carry lol with lollipop

Anyways - like I said only start to worry if you find pictures of pre-teens on the computer because it may come to this and you are right to keep a check on the browser history. Dont stop doing that and if you find any preteens on there talk to him about it. Confront him to seek help for that but only that and not when they are 15-16 cause like in the UK 16 is the legal age of consent last I checked and no one really bothers when a guy dates a young girl of that age only some think that the guy must be wacked if he cannot get a girl his own age.

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Isn't the whole "virgin/slut-bad-schoolgirl-in-kneesocks" theme quite normal in porn?

Still, I can see how you'd find it creepy. But it seems like you knew he was like this before you got together with him, so I guess you knew what you were in for. If he's otherwise a decent person who won't harm anyone else, I guess you don't need to worry? Stumbling over porn is never nice, no matter what kind of porn it is, and every man seems to have quirky things he likes

i prefer old women

So someone who rapes a 9yr old is a paedo, but one who rapes a 10yr old isn't? You retard.

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man im thankful mine only likes the boring straight porn

Firstly, who mentioned rape? We're talking about guys who view internet porn...

Secondly, you missed my point. She was talking about her boyfriend looking at barely legal teens and I am pointing out the difference between looking at that, and pre-teens.

Amity - you are really losing your way recently. I read the posts you make on occasion and feel really sorry for you.

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eh, to be fair she had a point...so to rephrase what she asked, you would be fine with someone looking at 10 yo and getting off but not 9 yo?

anyway, on the actual thread, i wouldnt shit my pants over it but it's a bit worrying, i reckon that sorta thing could be a slippery slope

creepy

talk to him about it?

I mean he´s the sort of guy that would marry you and everything and leave you when you are 50 for a 18 year old. Or maybe do what Woody Allen did if you adopt a kid, and marry his daughter instead.

yuk
pedo, dump him 2 fuck

Does he make you shave all yr pubes?

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fuck.

I just googled "slutty school girls" and ended up back at kittyradio.

jesus, I can't get away from this place.

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right 15/16 and 22 isnt that bad at all. when i was at school there were girls who had boyfriends who were that age? and especially seing as at 16 your legal for sex i dont think its THAT bad..
maybe 15 is a bit weird. some 16 year old can seem older?
the omg dark side comments are a bit ott i think

Isn't the whole "virgin/slut-bad-schoolgirl-in-kneesocks" theme quite normal in porn?

- exactly! also that and the rest of what theempress' post said really. as long as it isnt like 12 year olds i doubt id be that concerned. the worst part of it imo is the "emo xxx" - lol.

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no no never say maybe to smack bunny baby again.

I know

who would want to have sex with an emo, they'd probably sit on the side of the bed and cry afterwards

side parted pubes

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I can understand how it would make you feel insecure (extremely insecure, even), but I don't think his behaviour is at all unusual. Any girl would get upset about her boyfriend looking at porn. It raises all sorts of questions about why he feels the urge to look at porn and whether you're satisfying him sexually. But you must also remember that most guys have sex on the mind constantly, when you are and when you're not around. Especially considering this guy's history, it's totally normal that you should question where you stand with him and whether you meet his sexual preferences. He could be feeling guilty about his attraction to younger girls and is using you as a cover-up, to prove that he's not a pervert. So he turns to porn as a poor substitute for dating a real girl. It is but a possibility and chances are he may not even realize it himself. Personally I would break up with him on the grounds that I have issues with insecurity so it would be more my problem than his, but everyone is different and I really think you should confront your boyfriend about it.

lmao @ side-parted pubes

this happened with an ex of mine who also had a history of seeing girls much younger than him. he was looking at the kind of websites with titles such as