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03-10-2008, 04:11 PM
|  | je t'aime moi non plus | | Join Date: May 2006 Location: France
Posts: 704
| | | how to marry your man?
well i don't need a millionnaire, i just want my bf to ask me to get marry.
he fucking knows i want to get married sooo bad. we can afford a marriage in 2009.
he told me marriage is useless (???!!!), and he doesn't want to marry in church (i don't want either!!! i told him 1 3265 times!!).
he prefers having children before getting married. my dear, a child is pretty much work, plus i work too much for now, plus i know i'll have difficulties to get pregnant (it will take time for sure), plus i don't want a baby right now, even if i'm ready.
do you have any advices? same situations?
what do you think about marriage? would you get married?
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03-10-2008, 04:55 PM
|  | give me sweet, sweet soul | | Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: Scotland
Posts: 4,339
| | | Why do you want to get married?
I'm not trying to be awkward, I just genuinely wonder why.
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Deux hommes font une promenade amicale. L'un des deux porte un parapluie à son bras.
Il se met à pleuvoir. L'homme n'ouvre pas son parapluie et l'autre lui demande pourquoi.
- Parce que ça ne servirait à rien, lui répond son ami. Il est plein de trous.
- Alors, pourquoi l'as-tu pris?
- Parce que je ne pensais pas qu'il pleuvrait. |
03-10-2008, 05:00 PM
|  | duh! | | Join Date: May 2006 Location: Sao Paolo
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| | | in that case why don't YOU ask him?
it's 2008 |
03-10-2008, 05:26 PM
|  | Black eyed angel. | | Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: Pennsylvania
Posts: 786
| | | "he told me marriage is useless"
If he doesn't believe in it trying to convince him will lead to a very unhappy marriage. I would be weary of having a child before marriage if it's that important to you. Both children AND marriage are things both partners have to agree upon.
I tend to agree about getting married. It's just a ritual to me. |
03-10-2008, 05:29 PM
| | give me sweet, sweet soul | | Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: Scotland
Posts: 4,339
| | Quote:
Originally Posted by Mallory Knox  in that case why don't YOU ask him?
it's 2008 | Well he's only going to say no, surely?
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Deux hommes font une promenade amicale. L'un des deux porte un parapluie à son bras.
Il se met à pleuvoir. L'homme n'ouvre pas son parapluie et l'autre lui demande pourquoi.
- Parce que ça ne servirait à rien, lui répond son ami. Il est plein de trous.
- Alors, pourquoi l'as-tu pris?
- Parce que je ne pensais pas qu'il pleuvrait. |
03-10-2008, 05:38 PM
| | duh! | | Join Date: May 2006 Location: Sao Paolo
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| | Quote:
Originally Posted by Black Mambo Well he's only going to say no, surely? | you never know |
03-10-2008, 06:25 PM
|  | is anonymous | | Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: O' England, my lionheart
Posts: 2,234
| | | Buy two plane tickets to Las Vegas and get him nicely drugged up like they always used to do with Mr T on The A-Team. Granted, I don't think they ever used this trick to dupe Mr T into getting married, but the same theory applies.
It just goes to show that there's nothing you can't learn from The A-Team.
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03-11-2008, 09:49 AM
|  | fizzy lifting drinks | | Join Date: Jan 2007
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| | | shit i would normally and enthusiastically say fake a pregnancy but i guess that's out.
i mean my real answer is along the lines of what dawlheart said. |
03-11-2008, 10:21 AM
|  | brain problem situation | | Join Date: Apr 2006
Posts: 3,625
| | | if he wants to get married, he will ask you in his own time.
if he doesn't and you pressure him into it, he will resent you for it.
and do you really want to be married to someone that doesn't want to be married in the first place? that'd be a pretty shitty way to start a life together i think. |
03-11-2008, 10:21 AM
|  | mendacious | | Join Date: Sep 2007
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| | | Ultimatum. So sexy.
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03-11-2008, 02:31 PM
|  | x_x | | Join Date: Oct 2007
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| | Quote:
Originally Posted by cricket shit i would normally and enthusiastically say fake a pregnancy but i guess that's out.
i mean my real answer is along the lines of what dawlheart said. | nono i like the first one |
03-11-2008, 03:24 PM
|  | kotityttö | | Join Date: Nov 2007 Location: Sweden
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| | Quote:
Originally Posted by Mallory Knox in that case why don't YOU ask him?
it's 2008 | It is a leap year. 
I want to get married.  |
03-11-2008, 03:45 PM
| | je t'aime moi non plus | | Join Date: May 2006 Location: France
Posts: 704
| | Quote:
Originally Posted by hiiri It is a leap year.
I want to get married. | he knows i want to get married. but i want him to ask me!!!
it is not hopeless as he told me HE will ask me in a very romantic way. (but when!!??)
i am so conservative sometimes 
i know it's 2008 but i have always dreamed about the man who will ask me, and i agree.
2 guys ever asked me before; i said no, i didn't want to spend my life with them!
i'm gonna shut up now, i'm too obsessive about marriage, i'm insane.
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03-11-2008, 04:26 PM
|  | This space for rent | | Join Date: Aug 2006
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| | I'm all for women doing the proposing!!! I'll prob be the one to propose to my man- rather than him propose to me (although that's a while away yet!)
Best of luck to you.  |
03-11-2008, 04:29 PM
| | This space for rent | | Join Date: Aug 2006
Posts: 618
| | Quote:
Originally Posted by Lucile he knows i want to get married. but i want him to ask me!!!
it is not hopeless as he told me HE will ask me in a very romantic way. (but when!!??)
i am so conservative sometimes
i know it's 2008 but i have always dreamed about the man who will ask me, and i agree.
2 guys ever asked me before; i said no, i didn't want to spend my life with them!
i'm gonna shut up now, i'm too obsessive about marriage, i'm insane. | How old are you? you are probably too young for marriage anyway. |
03-11-2008, 05:17 PM
| | duh! | | Join Date: May 2006 Location: Sao Paolo
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| | | it sounds like you are a little conservative indeed |
03-15-2008, 11:44 PM
|  | don't assume i like you. | | Join Date: Mar 2007 Location: not here for long.
Posts: 676
| | Quote:
Originally Posted by Black Mambo Well he's only going to say no, surely? | mine said yes. both times.
perhaps this is a question i should stop asking....?  |
03-16-2008, 12:04 AM
|  | fatontheinside | | Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: Australia
Posts: 1,184
| | | I want to get married too but we are too young still, and he seems to think you need piles and piles of money to get married. I suppose we should wait until he has a stable job though.
To be honest I don't think this man is ever going to want to marry you. |
03-20-2008, 12:35 PM
|  | MYSPACE.COM/ENGLANEMUSIC | | Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: England
Posts: 649
| | | I don't ever want to get married, OR have kids. I fucking hate kids, and the idea of marriage, to me, is just a trap...
What's wrong with walking away from/getting out of a relationship, for FREE? |
03-20-2008, 02:58 PM
| | Black eyed angel. | | Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: Pennsylvania
Posts: 786
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Originally Posted by EnglanE I don't ever want to get married, OR have kids. I fucking hate kids, and the idea of marriage, to me, is just a trap...
What's wrong with walking away from/getting out of a relationship, for FREE? | Pretty much how I feel. | |
