well i don't need a millionnaire, i just want my bf to ask me to get marry.
he fucking knows i want to get married sooo bad. we can afford a marriage in 2009.
he told me marriage is useless (???!!!), and he doesn't want to marry in church (i don't want either!!! i told him 1 3265 times!!).
he prefers having children before getting married. my dear, a child is pretty much work, plus i work too much for now, plus i know i'll have difficulties to get pregnant (it will take time for sure), plus i don't want a baby right now, even if i'm ready.

do you have any advices? same situations?
what do you think about marriage? would you get married?

Why do you want to get married?

I'm not trying to be awkward, I just genuinely wonder why.

in that case why don't YOU ask him?
it's 2008

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"he told me marriage is useless"
If he doesn't believe in it trying to convince him will lead to a very unhappy marriage. I would be weary of having a child before marriage if it's that important to you. Both children AND marriage are things both partners have to agree upon.
I tend to agree about getting married. It's just a ritual to me.

Well he's only going to say no, surely?