OH God! Oh GOD OH GOD!
well this happened last night in the am. He logged on my email and saw I was flirting with this guy from myspace. But the truth is I dont even like the guy. I was at his place. He printed 10 pages of conversations starting from 6 months ago. With me saying things like I love you and Me and you forver to this guy.
He fought at 3 am to 4 am then he threw me out at 5 am. Saying he doesnt wanna see me again.
After 3 years going on 4 years we've been together.
What should I do?
How do I make it up to him?
I told him I didnt mean the things I said but he was so angry. I love him so much and I cant lose him. Please help me out!

Why were you flirting with that guy?
I don't think there's much you can do tbh.

You've got to be fucking kidding me?

Er, "I love you" isn't exactly something said lightly. You must surely have meant it.

And your bf sneaking through your emails isn't exactly a sign of a strong relationship either.

I'm not even going to help you on this one. You fucked up. Face the consequences. If breaking up for good will finally stop you whining about this hopeless relationship of yours, I'm all for it.

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Deux hommes font une promenade amicale. L'un des deux porte un parapluie à son bras.
Il se met à pleuvoir. L'homme n'ouvre pas son parapluie et l'autre lui demande pourquoi.
- Parce que ça ne servirait à rien, lui répond son ami. Il est plein de trous.
- Alors, pourquoi l'as-tu pris?
- Parce que je ne pensais pas qu'il pleuvrait.

I understand innocent flirtations. BUT why the hell were you saying you loved a guy you didn't even like? Are you sure you weren't cheating?

I say "I love you" to people all the time on MSN and stuff. But it's mostly mates who I'm definitely not nailing, and it's usually clear from the context that we're not flirting.

I dunno, I'd kinda say... tough shit? Sure, maybe it is a misunderstanding, but they happen. They suck but they happen. If you can think of a good reason why he should give you the benefit of a doubt, tell him. I'd like to hear it too.


EDIT: Haha, I just remembered who you are: http://kittyradio.com/soapbox/love-r...tml#post964479

Epic fail, seriously. Just give up on ever dating anyone else and cut your minge out, you're obviously a complete fucking trainwreck and I don't think anyone else deserves you anymore than the poor sod who finally dumped you.

you sort of sound like a slag to be honest.

how fucking retarded must you be. and change your password you idiot

You don't fucking deserve to get him back. The only thing you can do now is try to think of this as a learning experience.

From this thread

Guess not?
Oi vey.

WE've been together almost 4 years.
I cant lose him. Today I am losing my mind. I cant see him. I am crying. Tomorrow I am gonna just show up at his place in the morning. GOD WHAT HAPPENED TO TRUE LOVE?

Yes sometimes I flirt with people online but I'd never cheat on him. How can I love someon I never met? I cant it was just a joke.

You're a fool and won't be told.

EDIT: Do you think maybe he's using this as an excuse to break up with you rather than a reason? That maybe he's been sick of your crap for a while but he's finally found something you did to hang it on, rather than dumping you for the shit person you are (which would reflect badly on him for dating you in the first place)?

A joke doesn't go back 6 months with 10 pages of prints outs.
But thats a bit beside the point. You don't sound like your in a place to even have a relationship. And from reading a previous thread it seems like you are a horrible girlfriend. If you loved him you'd realize you're (at least what I perceive as) fucking up his life. True love is wanting the best for the one you care for.

Your Hostage is finally free of YOU. Do the right thing for once in your life and let him go. If you believe in love as much as you claim, you will leave him the hell alone.

Yeah but I really didnt mean it. I never even met this guy. FUck sakes he lives in fuckin whales. I dont care about him. I emailed him and said never talk to me again.
My bf is all I want in life. Its that too much to ask for.
I guess I wasnt thinking. But no excuses.
2nd I dont come on here to be ridiculed and judged.
POSITIVE FEEDBACK?
Please I am hurtin and dyin. How can I make things better?
What can I do?
I love him and cant leave him.
Tomorrrow morning I am going to his job to volunteer so I can see him and tell him I love him. And beg him to be iwth me.

I wonder how long it will take him to wise up and get a restraining order.

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C.J.: Is there anything I can say except, 'The President rode his bicycle into a tree'?
Leo: He hopes never to do it again?
C.J.: Seriously, they're laughing pretty hard
Leo: He rode his bicycle into a tree, CJ. What do you want me... 'The President, while riding a bicycle on his vacation in Jackson Hole, came to a sudden arboreal stop.' What do you want from me?
C.J.: A little love, Leo.

ok you can't really use this as an excuse, everyone pretends the internet doesn't count but we all know it does.

I'd totally flip if someone did this to me. You want attention from other guys even if it is on myspace or whatever. slag!

I'm sorry if people seem harsh on here, but literally everything you suggest sounds insane and literally everything sane that we suggest gets rejected. I mean, we'd already established that you need to stay away from his work, that it's caused arguments before and so on... and NOW you think it'd be a great idea to show up at his work and beg him to take you back.

I mean, how the hell can anyone help you when you're that far removed from basic social norms?

You sound like a real loose goose, so I think you should let him go. At the moment it's "they were only emails" but next it will be "it was only a blow job" and then "yeah he fucked me, but not up the ass or anything."

Spare him the future pain and find yourself a guy who will appreciate your apparent disdain for monogamy.

Sometimes saying goodbye is the most loving thing you can do for a person.

I've been through this shit with a guy(he was the one 'online flirting') and let me tell you THERE IS NO POSITIVE FEEDBACK. You fucked up.

You are the type of bitch I'm disgusted with for ruining semi-normal men. And you weren't thinking for *6 months*??

And you've got it twisted. You're not leaving him. He's leaving your sneaky ass.

And bitch you have the nerve to mention "true love"?? You're leaving something out, obviously.


STFU. STFU right. now.