It's also totally obvious that you need to devote more time to yourself and your personal interests. You are an
individual, remember, and there are so many things in the world for you to discover. I think that as you gain more independence and self-worth (for I sense that you are lacking in it), this guy will accordingly become more insignificant/trivial as a part of your life. It makes sense, doesn't it? Fill your life with meaningful things and push this guy to the side. There are more important things deserving of your time