Originally Posted by cinder
It seems fine to have oppisite interests but not oppisite personality traits, if you get what I mean?
Well, there is such thing as a clash of personalities, especially among people with self-identity issues (and at the end of the day, don't we all have issues with self-identity?). I would almost say that the opposite holds more truth, that a common interest brings people together but differing personality traits would prevent them from becoming boring to one another.
I think a balance is necessary. Different enough to be interesting to each other but similar enough to get along.