I usually e-mail my boyfriend when I get into work in the AM and he e-mails me back (as he gets in a little later than I do). Today I have not heard from all day and I am a little bugged out b/c I am being paranoid...like what if something bad happened to him? I am assuming he is just busy or maybe he forgot his blackberry @ home or something...but still it gets me crazy. I suppose I could have called him @ work but I didn't want to call him during work b/c that is probably not a good idea. Chances are everything is fine but I am just worried. Blah, I am a very paranoid person.

It sounds like you might be overbearing.

Like, this kind of thing should just not be a big deal?

^ What she said.

I hate this kind of obsessive behaviour. It's just an email. He's probably busy.

maybe he's just busy? in a meeting? talking to a colleague?

im sure he's fine though.

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Why do we even have that lever?

Obsessive behavior is so difficult. I think everyone is guilty from time to time, but I only really understand why people do it if their significant other starts flaking out a lot.