because i doubt the person that wrote it would stumble on it on here:

I just got this on facebook, how should I respond? it makes me cringe to think i even said anything now.

im really trying to steer clear of girls at the minute. not because im dabbling in homosexuality just cos i only just got out of a serious relationship and dont want anything serious : P you seem great though.

I'm confussed.

so am i

basically that's in response to something I said to the person

lol at the dabbling in homosexuality thing.

why would he assume that's what you would think.

You asked him out yeah?
I'd just say

1)Nothing, just leave it
*if i wanted 2 b DRAMATIC

2)K we still b friends k
*if u want non bad times ahead...

he must be a homo....what straight single guy wouldn't be up for a date, shag or hand job!

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Unless he isn't interested and is trying to let her down easy.

i wouldn't, that's the joy of the internets!

'cunt'

'whatev'

'i hope you get teh bad aidz'

'oh, okay!'

'i'm going to commit suicide now. bye'

'BENDER'

people like this are the most prone to being pussy whipped. he's just saying that because he knows he's easy to win over and is trying to cover up his bitterness.

make him eat you out

just say okay.
His phrasing makes him sound like a pussy
LEAVE IT ALONE

thanks for the replies...

I did leave it in the end...it's easier.

i once got almost this EXACT message off this guy i'd met out and ended up going home with. it had been good so all i'd said was (words to effect of) "i had fun maybe we could do it again". so then i got a steaming great pile of horse shit about having "just come out of a serious relationship", how he wasn't "looking for a relationship at the moment" etc. so i resisted the urge to tell him it wasn't THAT good and just assured him i wasn't looking for anything serious either and GUESS what the reply to that was?! "oh, right, well then yeah i'd be totally up for a re-run, how about this weekend, how about we go to yours as i'm guessing you have a door on your bedroom!" (dont' ask).

what the fuuuuck?! i'm seeing a pattern forming, i think your guy's another arrogant prick who thinks you probably couldn't HELP but fall for an adonis like him but as long as you're up for his physical gratification then come on round!! ignore the fucker

not bitter in the least

LOLLLLLLLLLLL. i changed my mind, my revised position is: reply with one of these three!my fave is the second one!!

Thanks for that story...yes, it does seem similiar...it wasn't like I expecting to marry him..far from it...this was supposed to be my year of ignoring men...so, i shall go back to doing that.

ha why is it that men always do seems to think that if a girl sends a message it means 'omgz i really love u i wana be your girlfriend forever'
whereas really its NOT.

im currently contemplating sending a guy a message- along these types of lines. but now rethinking as the reply might go something like that!

I thought i'd update this, mostly because I'm bored but also because the outcome amuses me...so, after all that hadn't heard from or seen the guy in awhile....then last friday I was in a city with some friends at a silent rave (which was shite but anyway) it gets to about 4.30am and my phone rings...it's the guy. He rings me up, off his face on whatever and tells me that he misses me and where I am? I tell him i'm in the city and wont be home until the next day, why? he then launches into a ten minute monologue about how hot I am and how much he wants to have sex with me . I am *very* drunk on the Absinthe at this point and so kind of go along with it...he actually said "when you sent me that message saying I was beautiful I thought, you, like, you know wanted to go out with me, man! and i like, got all freaked out and stuff. He then proceeded to go into more monologues about what he wanted me to do to him and vice versa. I was like, yeah, yeah if i'm back tomorrow early enough i'll come around and see you, I think I may also have insisted on only having sex if we could listen to PJ Harvey at the same time (because i'm classy like that)....

needless to say, I laughed it off in the morning as drunkeness and stuff. Obviously he didn't! He totally assumes that I was serious and was actually going to go to his house after being at a rave until 7am. He then tried a different tactic by asking me to come around in the week instead...He totally ruined the end of Paris, Je Taime for me...as right at the end, he phones up asking if I want to meet up tomorrow night to have sex....errr, no! I made my excuses and went to the pub with my friends instead.
I think he's not speaking to me anymore...trouble is, I kind of sort of miss him...a bit...I just really like the whole River Phoenix vibe he has going on...hmmm

I still do think you should call him out for his latent homophobia. How dare he imply even slightly that dabbling in homosexuality is anything other than completely normal, and hopefully one day compulsory, behaviour?!?!?!??!?!?

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hahahaha! you crack me up