Hey all, I'm looking for some advice.

Basically, I hate my mother. There are millions of reasons why, and I don't feel like getting into all of them, but I would have to say the biggest one is that she makes me, and my sisters, feel like we aren't important and that we are more of a hassle than anything. It's probably the worst feeling I have ever felt. She acts like we are such disturbances when in relaity we don't even bother her all that much. In fact, I barely even speak to her.

She takes all of the bad decisions she has made out on us, including marrying and having 4 children with a maintenance man who barely made $20,000 a year even if he was granted all the luck in the world.

I need to learn how to tune her out. My 15 yr old sister says she has learned to just blot her out, and she doesnt understand why I cant do it. It might be that since she basically is my only parent I still have some hope, but I think I have lost all of it.

How do you guys tune people out so that what they say and do can't hurt?

ear phones.

I like to play a song I like in my head.

Do you live with her?

yes, i just finished school so i'll be here for a bit longer. i'm not trying to make a big deal about it, but it's kind of hard to be treated in such a way.

for example: im pretty much the only one who cleans, empties and fills the dishwasher, straightens up the kitchen and her bathroom for her. i also clean up after my sisters and their boyfriends but yet she claims no one ever does anything.

it's like, why should i even do it anymore? nothing is ever appreciated. oh and its Her house, Her mop, Her everything. Never have I ever heard of a mother saying any of that to thier kids. Oh, when you come down can you bring me down MY windex and my Broom?

She's so sad.