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Old 02-07-2008, 11:20 PM
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Someone Is Copying Me

Don't really know if this is the right place to put this, but this is where you get the best advice I guess.

OK: so basically - there is a girl at my school. We used to be "friends" (more like, had so many mutual ones, we ended up hanging out), and i always thought she was a bit weird, like, always pretending to know all about every band, film or book I was talking about, even when you knew that she had never heard about it.
After loads of drama with my friends, I sort of switched social circles, so I didn't really talk with her much.
But then this whole thing started.
She is obviously copying me. The way I wear my hair. All my clothes. The music I listen to. It sounds very whiny and immature to even care about this stuff - but it just gets annoying when you wear something, and the next day she is wearing the EXACT same outfit.
And it isn't like she'll tell me that she just likes my style, or that I inspire her or anything, she badmouths me ALL the time.
Lots of people are telling me that she is such a wannabe.

But anyways, this whole thing didn't bother me too much until I found her BLOG. She had accually not only used my old nick from my old blog, but also stolen lots of my titles, and accually copyandpasted paragraphs from my blog into her's, claiming that she had written them!
She had also posted several pictures of me.

I sent her an e-mail and told her that if she was going to use stuff I had written, it would be nice if she asked me first, and talked a bit about the style-thing.

She, of course, replied with something like: "yr a rip off of Julia, and blablablaaa", and now we have this huge argument.

My question is really: was telling her really bitchy, and mean?
I feel sort of bad...
But then again, I just find the whole thing so freaky, it feels good to have gotten it off my chest.

I dont know.
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Old 02-08-2008, 12:05 AM
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she sounds like a freak. puclicly shame her for being so unoriginal
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Old 02-08-2008, 12:25 AM
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It was a bit bitchy to tell her, but when she's actually taking your pictures words and presenting them as her own, I'd say it's warranted.

I always think that copycats need to be led into something completely embarrassing in order for them to be publicly shamed, but it means you have to do it first.
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Old 02-08-2008, 01:26 AM
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that is QUITE fucked up. she obviously has major identity and self-esteem issues and totally needs counselling. i can't believe she'd be so blatant about it too. she's obviously wrong in the head.
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I'd leave it alone. Anyone worth knowing what's going on here likely already does. By not saying jack shit and letting her look like the fool she is I think says a lot.

I had this same problem several years ago; it all ended when my friend she wanted to desparately be with "forever" left her a note saying he'd only date her if she stabbed out her ovaries in front of a busy pubic area. Instantly she quit trying to copy me.

Not saying this is the issue at hand, but seriously, people are going to see through this and you don't have to do a damn thing but continue being yourself.
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