He's an online boyfriend.


yeah I know, but this is a huge deal to me cause ive never been in relationship before, my online peeps were never "relationships" just people I talked to and and tried to get them to have sex with me but always declined because of my age or location.

But heres a shocker...



HE'S CLOSE TO MY AGE! He's actually a year younger than me. I know, right? But this guy is pretty cool and we both developed feelings for each other but we were both afraid the other didnt reciprocate or that we'd scare them away but I finally brought up the courage to chat about it and I was really taken aback.


He's intelligent, especially in terms of history and politics, which is something we love to converse over and he says he doesnt know anyone else smart enough who can chat about those things with. And he thinks Im sexy and stuff so that's cool.

But it's just hard because he wants to try to have it like a tradional relationship kindof where he doesn't have sex with anyone and Im kinda like "dude that's really unrealistic, you dont have to be abstinent for me." I don't even believe in long-term monogamy so. .


And considering I don't know when I'd ever be able to meet him. I mean even after I turn 18 this summer my mom won't let me travel so I'm confused? is this just pointless?

THANK GOD i'm not the only one...

If you work hard not to fuck it up, all will be sweet. Make sure you don't go too long before you see him in the flesh. So crucial.

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I escaped somehow. Let's go

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Congrats, Nina.

How far away is he?

He lives in Delaware. So quite a ways away.