Ahhh where do i start. I have already posted on here about my overprotective boyfriend... i just dont know what to think anymore..

He hacked my email and some profile pages i have to see who i was talking to... constantly goes through my phones... if i get a text hel ask who it is or make a "joke" its my other boyfriend... doesnt like me being out with my friends having "fun"...comments on my make up and hair dye ( i hardly wear any make up apart from going out and when im out he says he doesnt like it..)..he likes me *natural*. Its my 21st birthday soon and me and my best friend are planning 4 nights away and he says he is so worried he cant even talk about it with me... doesnt want me to go. If i tell him im horney he make silly remarks about me getting myself off yet hes allow to ...

ahhh theres just to much to mention. Ok he is very unsecure but we have been together 7 months and i have gave him no reason atall that i would ever cheat/finish with him and he still goes on like this. Hel text me and tell me he has visions of me being with other people and wel end up arguing...

The thing is i really do love this guy...but i just cant keep taking all of this crap.

that's not called overprotective, it's called POSSESSIVE and he's stalker material. dump his ass pronto.

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That would annoy the shit out of me. If I were you I would dump his ass right away. The way he's acting is completely stupid and unacceptable. And there is probably nothing you can do to change it. Chances are, it will get worse as time goes on. You should get out of this relationship.

Oh god, I had a boyfriend like that when I was 21, it was hell. I loved him, too, and always hoped he would change but he never did. They can't. It's nothing to do with you or how you behave, you'll never be able to quell their fear no matter how many nights you stay in watching TV with them.

You're just going to have to leave him. Or look back seven years down the line kicking yourself for missing out on some of the best fun you never had.

ahhh i know your both right , but i just feel like i have put so much into this relationship that i dont want to give up on it straight away. Iv noticed recently iv became alot more upfront about his ways and i think hes caught on the way hes acting is unacceptable.