Okay this is what happened.... but first I wanna say I really really need to here words from you guys cause it makes me feel better.
Me and MY Bf fight all the time. but yesterday I think we broke up.
I went over to his place yesterday. His bitch friend was there and I got upset cause the night before he begged me to come in and spend time with him. He's also ignoring me sort of.
So I am a bit upset and due to that rude. Then he calls me outside and says I need to say Sorry. Then I flip out I go back in and start screaming. I am not gonna fuckin appologize to thsi fuckin CUNT!
He tells me I need to calm down or he will throw me out.
SO I start screaming at him. You made me rush in for no reason you fucking pig. I sit my the window cell and he keeps telling me to shut up so I get louder.
Then he tried to cover my mouth. Holding my mouth and I bite his hand. Then things get violent. I am not sure what happpens. I throw something at him. Then I am on the ground with his hand covering my mouth. ANd then the woman next door comes in WHATS GOING ON!
We stop. His friend leaves. He throws me out.
My face is bleeding with scrapes so is his.
Now he says he hates me and he doesnt wanna see me again. And I feel so sad. Was this my fault? And what can I do to make it better for him? He doesnt really hate me right? I mean we've been together for 3 years.
HELP!
I am dying this happened last night!

sorry but you aren't going to be coddled by me.

i have to say i did an LOL at that post.

I don't want to say it's your fault, but he did ask you to shut up. Seems like he was trying to be pretty civil and you didn't give a shit.

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Well you dont understand! Just because I see a therapist it means I am always or most of the time wrong by default things dont work like that.


I mean he could be nice to me!

Now I feel like I have nobody and nothing left if this time we broke up for real.

Well if he isn't nice with you, why are you with him in the first place?

I think that if your at the point in a relationship where your physically fighting each other, probably best to call it a day. Not much point in trying to find out who's to blame cause whats done is done.

It cant be done. I am a hopeless romantic if it ends I end.

So you'd prefer to stay in a relationship that you obviously seem unhappy in?

I am not always unhappy. He's the only one who understands and loves me. If I lose him I lose my life. Have you ever heard of COMMITEMENT!
ANyway I wanted to know wat I can do to make things up with him?
Do you have any ideas?

I wasn't aware that you're seeing a therapist, so I'm not saying that it was your fault because of that.
I have a friend who gets in some pretty violent fights with her boyfriend who she's been with for two years. She broke up with him the other day because she kind of liked another guy. When the other guy talked to her about wanting to fuck one of her other friends, she decided to go back to her boyfriend. Staying with someone because you don't want to be alone is really dumb in my opinion, I just don't understand it. Especially if either of you tend to get violent over any kind of disagreement.
Give it some time, you may be better apart. If he misses you he'll come back to you and if you still want him, go for it.

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It sounds like you were the main cause of the situation, to be honest. You threw a tantrum and wouldn't stop screaming. How is he (or anyone) supposed to deal with you when you're acting like that? If you have any expectations of being in a relationship whatsoever then you have to learn to control yourself and not act like a child.

it sounds like you need to reexamine the reasons you are committed to this person.

SHUT THE FUCK UP
SHUT THE FUCK UP
SHUT THE FUCK UP
SHUT THE FUCK UP
SHUT THE FUCK UP
FHS THE FUCK YUP
SHIUT THE FUCK UP
SHUT THE FUCK UP
SHUIT THE FUCK UP

SHUT THE FUCK UP SHUT THE FUCK UP

lpsing my mind crying here nobody cares.
He wont pick up the fuckin phone or text back!!!
I am losing my touch on things here
What can I DO TO GET HIM BACK?
TO MAKE HIM COME BACK?
YOU CANT TELL ME SHUT THE FUCK UP!

sounds like he made a good decision.

<<lpsing my mind crying here nobody cares.
He wont pick up the fuckin phone or text back!!!
I am losing my touch on things here
What can I DO TO GET HIM BACK?
TO MAKE HIM COME BACK?
YOU CANT TELL ME SHUT THE FUCK UP!>>

christ. you sound almost exactly like the chick my boyfriend hooked up with for a weekend while we were broken up.

did you corner him and threaten to commit suicide unless he takes you back yet?

Look, next time you get into a fight with him, just kick him in the balls. It's the easiest way to solve any male related problem.

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Umm I'd rather shoot myself than hurt him or someone I love like that.

Id rather shoot myself

WTF U TALKIN ABOUT YOU STUPID BITCH!

Thats why you wont ever be in a relationship