So, whenever I even remotely fancy someone, I sometimes feel strangely disgusted by them despite still feeling attracted to someone. Does anyone know what I mean? Why is that?

i get this too. i usually end up despising people i am attracted to, for no good reason at all.

i also tend to get strange random crushes on people i barely know, and as soon as i learn more and more about them and the mystery is taken away i start to feel disgusted by them? i can't understand why. it happens with almost everyone i like.

this answer had no substance, but i know what you mean. i can;t explain what it is or why.

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I was the same with my husband. Enjoy the disgust. Revel in it.

So did this ever lead to a relationship?
I was thinking that maybe it's because I don't want to get hurt, so my brain tells me they're disgusting so I don't even have to try to chat them up etc.

i think that might be it. partially.
nigella, what do you mean "WAS the same"?

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