he wont tell me about any conversations he has with his friend. when i ask what he talked about, he'll just say "not much" or "nothing really" he gives no detail about anything. i always tell him about funny or interesting things people say to me. yesterday he got a ride to this chinese restaurant from someone he moved furniture with at a hotel, and he didn't even tell me what the guy did for a living when he rode in the guy's freakin' "heating and air conditioning" truck! i even asked about the guy, but he failed to tell me what he did for a living when he rode in the guy's freakin' truck. i only found out about the guy's profession because i saw him today in the truck they rode in.yeah, i know it's not a huge deal, but when you ask someone about a person, you usually tell them what the person does for a living.
this is just so annoying to me because im the type that actually talks about my day and i tend to rehash it for him. but whenever i ask him about his day, he will sum it up in about 2 sentences.
doesnt he understand that i love him to death and want to know about his daily life? he is one of those "i dont care much about anything" types
but its like, ok, i KNOW he thinks about his day when its 9pm and hes at home for the night. who doesnt? i dont know, i just dont really understand it. maybe he would tell me alot more if he liked me more? is this a case of him not really liking me?
he would rather sit in front of the tv and not say a word than talk to me at night about his day.
i feel such a big loss of connection. i dont even know what goes on in his life because he never tells me. and yes i've talked about this with him.
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