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Old 01-26-2008, 11:33 PM
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My boyfriend dresses like crap and thinks it's ok

Today he was wearing jeans with a big hole in the crotch area. He had sweatpants on underneath, but still...and then when I asked him to please change his pants to go out to dinner, he didn't get it. He thought wearing those jeans was ok. He's 26 and still has shit he used to wear in high school. Help- he's so clueless when it comes to clothes and he doesn't even care.
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Old 01-27-2008, 12:26 AM
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My bf dresses pretty much the same as he did when he left high school... but I guess he didn't dress like crap then.

Maybe buy him a couple of items you think would suit him and see if he takes to them? I know a guy whose girlfriend in a space of 6 months has changed him from long-haired metaller to TopMan-wearing trendy-haircutted sub.
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Old 01-27-2008, 01:11 AM
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Mysteriously lose the jeans IN THE FUCKING BIN. Ahem.

I had a boyfriend like that once... once he was wearing this old woolen jumper that was like a dress. He started to wear it quite often even though I offered to buy him a new one. So it "got lost" in the boot of one of his friends cars.
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Old 01-27-2008, 02:04 AM
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Old 01-27-2008, 02:22 AM
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shut up and put your mothers lipstick on Jamie.
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explain why they are unacceptable
and offer to take him shopping for replacements
or buy him some new stuff for a gift


also wouldn't he have sweaty balls from wearing jeans and sweats even with the hole? yuck!
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Old 01-27-2008, 04:32 AM
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At least he was wearing sweatpants underneath! I know many men who are not so courteous, and he probably does too -- I bet that's why he was so baffled as to why you didn't like it.

I would suggest buying him some stuff that you think he will like. Then you can "lose' the old stuff.

The clothing issues is kinda touchy, I think...because it's so trivial. And everyone knows that its kind of trivial, but then again, it's not so trivial sometimes.
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My bf dresses pretty much the same as he did when he left high school... but I guess he didn't dress like crap then.

Maybe buy him a couple of items you think would suit him and see if he takes to them? I know a guy whose girlfriend in a space of 6 months has changed him from long-haired metaller to TopMan-wearing trendy-haircutted sub.
lol at that^ I quite like the scruffy look, guys dressed in black (not in a goth way) are great. There's a line between scruffy and tramp like though, I think that line is having holes in the crotch of your jeans.

I'd say buy him some new stuff thats close to what he already likes but y'know, better.
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My bf dresses pretty much the same as he did when he left high school... but I guess he didn't dress like crap then.

Maybe buy him a couple of items you think would suit him and see if he takes to them? I know a guy whose girlfriend in a space of 6 months has changed him from long-haired metaller to TopMan-wearing trendy-haircutted sub.
please can isee a pic of your boyfriend?
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oooh. start wearing clothes that he hates. i love this game!

btw, it seems like every guy i've ever dated hates when i wear tye-dye shirts. i don't get it.
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my brother and his girlfriend just bought semi-matching tye dye shirts. its a little bit cute.
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Today he was wearing jeans with a big hole in the crotch area. He had sweatpants on underneath, but still...and then when I asked him to please change his pants to go out to dinner, he didn't get it. He thought wearing those jeans was ok. He's 26 and still has shit he used to wear in high school. Help- he's so clueless when it comes to clothes and he doesn't even care.
For all we know, you dress abysmally, and he feels like he's slumming it. People who try to change other people are complete shitheads.
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For all we know, you dress abysmally, and he feels like he's slumming it. People who try to change other people are complete shitheads.
i can't +rep you twice in one day bitch, so i negged ronette

anyway crazyj1181, he's doing it because you're an idiot, when you're not around he's positively beau brummell

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i can't +rep you twice in one day bitch, so i negged ronette

anyway crazyj1181, he's doing it because you're an idiot, when you're not around he's positively beau brummell
What can I say? Shitty behaviour for a shitty boyfriend.
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Today he was wearing jeans with a big hole in the crotch area. He had sweatpants on underneath, but still...and then when I asked him to please change his pants to go out to dinner, he didn't get it. He thought wearing those jeans was ok. He's 26 and still has shit he used to wear in high school. Help- he's so clueless when it comes to clothes and he doesn't even care.
So what you're saying is that he hasn't changed the way he dresses since you started dating?
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btw, it seems like every guy i've ever dated hates when i wear tye-dye shirts. i don't get it.
how very bizarre!
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i can't +rep you twice in one day bitch, so i negged ronette

anyway crazyj1181, he's doing it because you're an idiot, when you're not around he's positively beau brummell
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