Hey

So i have this friend, who I'm really interested in, however we are just that, friends. I want to make the first move, but I'm unsure how to do it as I have never dated or even kissed a girl before

We have tonnes in common and I'm 80% sure she feels the same way. I want to do this without making things awkward between us, as we have lots of courses together and are on the same committees.

Is this even possible??

Of course it's possible. This is assuming you're a guy. If you're a girl it might not be as easy, since there might be different dynamics involved.

I've had a lot of friends over the years that I've managed to get into relationships with (I'm a girl), and afterwards I've remained friends with all of those guys. I don't have any particular knack or talent for this, it just seems to be the way it always ended up working out. So you shouldn't worry about spoiling the friendship if a relationship doesn't work.

As for getting to the relationship part, I'm afraid you will just have to find the balls and make the move. You say you see a lot of her, but if you haven't already then getting her number is a good first move. From there, I usually work up to the point where we spend a decent amount of free time together, just the two, and become really good friends. That makes the transition really quite easy, and asking them out wont seem so out of the blue.

Go for it. If you don't ask, you don't get.

But a word of warning: if the relationship messes up in a really bad way, it will have the potential to make things awkward. But if you're both adults about it, you should be OK.

my advice to get drunk together, try and kiss her and see what happens.

if she isn't interested say you were drunk and you misread the signals and you're sorry.

if not, bingo, you got you a lady.

yeah! you can do it!

i just recently decided i wanted to try to make something more out of my best guy friendship. now, this was pretty easy because it was established years ago that he wanted more, so i pretty much just had to lean in and kiss him to start things off.

i will say, though, that the following days can be weird. i am still sometimes having trouble thinking of him sexually, but sex helps for that.

good advice
and you can just say you dont know why you tried to kiss her
you dont need to explain about SIGNALZ
and all that ****
i dont reckon?