Well he comments on other women having big boobs and how he likes that. So that made me feel kind of bad since mine are really small so I asked if he thought they were too small. First he said that it was a weird question and then he goes "What am I supposed to say?". So I said "Lie, maybe?!" and then he said "But then you'd know I didn't mean it". So now I'm feeling really hurt and pissed off. He also said a lot of stuff about how it's not important and he likes me the way I am and he's sorry after I got upset.

The thing is now I feel like I don't ever want to take my clothes off before him again or have sex. And I feel bad about my body. I know it's silly superficial but I kind of care a lot about what I look like. That's just me. And before all this I felt okay about me.

Maybe it was just dumb of me to think it was like asking "Do I look fat in this?"

BTW when he asked about his penis sice I lied. Convincingly I always tell him how great he is and build him up :/ I would never do that to him.

What do you think? Do I have a right to be mad and what do I do now?

yeah you have a right to be mad.

he's all wide-eyed and "what? do u want me to lie?" but there's a difference between malevolent lies - to get you something, to get you out of something, to cause trouble for others, etc - and lies where nothing's at stake except the other person's feelings and you care enough to spare them.

my friend has a boyfriend like this. she's really self-conscious, too, but he's really self-assured and confident and popular. the thing is, i really like him - he's a total charmer and lots of fun to be around - but i don't really like the way he treats my friend when it's just the two of them. he, too, is always going on about "the tits on that" and how "fit" these other girls are and he flirts unashamedly in front of my friend and when she cracks and pulls him up on this behaviour, he just goes "okay, yeah, you have a right to be angry. ...so i'll leave"!! and he just GOES! and so she thinks the onus is on HER to make it all all right again and somehow - SOMEHOW - it's always her that apologises and patches things up again!

so anyway, yeah, you do have a right to be annoyed. what to do about it? i dunno...something more effective than my friend does!!

get really drunk and tell him he's never made you cum.

Small boobs are special
Tell him his penis isn't big enough

He sounds like a vile boyfriend

However, my boyfriend has done pretty much the same thing. But he wasn't being nasty and I doubt your boyfriend is either. You're more than just boobs to him, surely thats a good thing?
My boyfriend is so upfront its quite disturbing but he genuinely doesn't get the whole lying thing. Many times have I had to patch up instances when hes called girls fat to their faces or insulted people in some other way without even realising it, it is unbeliveable. He does think my boobs are small, I try not to care so much, because he still loves me. I think his nose is a funny shape and I don't like his teeth, I don't tell him because it doesn't bother me really, doesn't affect the way I feel and he hasn't asked.
Point is you asked and he was honest, not nasty. Thats why I got over those comments from my boyfriend.

I bet the good things he says about you outweighs this.

Plus small boobs are great in my opinion.

He is treating you horribly and disrespectfully and not in a way that suggests he thinks you're beautiful and precious which you are, everyone is. He's obviously very insecure himself, you can do better, screw the hot young local gardner and see how he likes THEM apples!!!
Or forget the last part, whatever but get out of that relationship and don't look back.