What's worse, being dumped, or dumping someone? Me, I'd say actually dumping someone, cause then you have the gulit and everyone hates you. At least when you get dumped you have the sympathy.

dumpling

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No tongue, my lipstick!

urgh, BEING dumped of course

sure, you can illicit some sympathy for a while but sympathy's hardly sexy

It depends on who it is you're dumping / being dumped by, and how you feel about them.

being dumped is way worse.
I was always the one doing the dumping in all my relationships..I felt really bad about it but I'd feel way worse if I were dumped.

I was kind of rejected once and now, years later, I still feel bad about it. I probably wouldn't have survived being dumped. lol. I cannot handle rejected.
(being kind of rejected means I talked this guy for quite a long time at a club and we exchanged numbers but he never called me...I was already pretty devastated over that so can you imagine if I were actually dumped.? god. this is exactly why I'm afraid of admitting I like someone)