it seems that the guys i know don't really agree.

So? Do you need their approval?

well if they're hot, then yes. i do need approval.

It's really damn depressing how posts like this make the lot of women just seem really insecure.

It's a night out with his friends. Be happy he has friends. Go out with yours. If you don't have friends, get some. Nothing is more annoying in any relationship than someone who decides to dump their baggae into your lap and expect you to fix it.

My husband has always had boy nights and boy trips even when we were dating. I am one of the few girlfriends that doesn't freak out. Needless to say the boys like me but some of the wives think I am too trusting. I wouldn't have married my husband if I didn't trust him. What really got them was when the boys went to a stag in Vegas and I wrote my hubby a note with $25 US attached for a lap dance. It doesn't bug me because he is coming back to me but a lot of people think I am too trusting.
He is the same with me.

I don't get being jealous.