I think the reason you're being paranoid is that you are way insecure, and it shows. It seems like you are terrified of loosing him and staying alone. If you keep this behavior he’ll end up leaving you because nobody likes the feeling of being trapped in anyway and he will sense it eventually...

If I end up moving to where my boyfriend lives (I hope to, and soon) I worry that he'll end up all controlling, because he ain't so social and I want to hit the town every few weeks, and have beers down the pub after hockey matches. He may disapprove.

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Time is the distance that you can't return by miles.

I escaped somehow. Let's go

actualy [sic] I have quite a blessed life if I'm honest. I have many people to love, hate few and have few money problem's [sic].... What more does a person need? Oh yeah and I have some kind of humbleness unlike you of course ^_^ ~ CarefulCarpenter

insecurity/jealosy is the fast track to lonelyville.

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Well, it was no Goodburger.

it's true. i think this is probably my problem. well that and i don't like anyone, ever.

Misanthropy is hot, though.

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Time is the distance that you can't return by miles.

I escaped somehow. Let's go

actualy [sic] I have quite a blessed life if I'm honest. I have many people to love, hate few and have few money problem's [sic].... What more does a person need? Oh yeah and I have some kind of humbleness unlike you of course ^_^ ~ CarefulCarpenter