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I would seriously hesitate to be with a guy who would date a 16 year old when he was 22. Most guys have morals and would never do that.

As for the problem of her still calling him.... it doesn't really matter how much she calls him, it matters how he deals with it. If he is committed to being with you and ignores her calls, then she'll get the message.

Yuck.

Thats fucked up.

. . . yuck.

i don't really think its any of your business why he was with her then. you weren't in the picture. people change.
but maybe you should talk to him about calling her & just telling her once & for all he doesn't want contact with her. rather than just avoiding her. that might be a better solution if you both want her out of your lives.

i agree with that. & for the record, from when i was 16 to when i was 19 i had a relationship with a guy 5 years older than me and he had morals etc. you can't really help who you fall in love with.

and from the sounds of it, he wants to be friends with her or has at least told her he wants to be friends. if he wanted to go & visit her at work etc. which would explain why she'd been calling him to hang out/visit her at work. if he doesn't want to be friends with her & doesn't want to see her, he needs to tell her that. if they want to be friends, then really you'll just have to get used to it.