am i making a big deal out of nothing?

i was IMing him on the computer trying to play poker with him and all of a sudden he says "LEAVE ME THE FUCK ALONE" "get the fuck off my nuts" and "FUCK OFF"

he said it was because he was in a bad mood and that i was bugging him. well he could of told me that and i would of left him alone. i dont think telling me to fuck off was necessary.

i dont really think someone says that to people who they respect or who they really like. what do you think? is this something one should "put up" with?

is it normal in relationships? sure everyone gets mad now and then, but i dont know if its to this extent?

Uhm.. I tell my boyfriend off like that sometimes.
Because he knows I hate it when he's all like, "OMG are you okay??? You sound so upset. Are you upset with me? DID I DO SOMETHING?" but he does it anyway. So. I just tell him to fuck off and stop being a girl.
And he yells at me for being sexist.
And I tell him to shutup again.
This causes major pointless arguments.

I wouldn't worry about it too much if it isn't a recurring thing. People just have off days from time to time.

dude, my husband and i tell each other to fuck off on a regular basis. as long as it isn't followed by a punch in the face, i think it's pretty normal.

so this stuff is ok? wow im so inexperienced.

agree, im usually the one telling him to fuck off though
but kinda depends...how long have you been with him?