This is so lame, but...there is a guy (a security guard) I like here at the same building I work at that I want to talk to. I'm of course a pussy, who can't go up to him and at least ask him if he has a g/f, so this way I can stop drooling over him and trying to undress him with my eyes if he's unavailable.
He looks like a heavier version of Mac from It's Always Sunny in Philadelphia (smokes, jet black hair, slicked back, and a small amount of facial hair, Italian or Irish), which for some reason, makes me want him badly.
Any suggestions or ideas? My cousin suggested I bake him a cake or cookies, but other than looking like a complete psycho bringing him snacks, I want some realistic suggestions. But with how everything goes in my life, he most likely has a girlfriend or is (possibly) married.
I've never had to ask a guy out, it's usually the other way around (not that it's frequent or anything), so I'm trying to figure out a decent game plan, so if he says no, the next time I see him, I won't feel like a (rejected) nerd.
Other thing is, not sure if this is matters or not...but he's white and I'm black. So, that
might be a factor.
I have a habit of not noticing when guys are flirting with me until its too late...I just take it as them being really nice. I've liked and chatted with a few other guys in the past who’ve flirted with me (and I actually liked), I didn't pick up on it, and they moved, got another job -- my loss, whatever.
And of course, I was working late one night (still working at 2 or 3 in the morning) and the security guard asked me if I wanted coffee or something, I said no thanks and kept going -- I thought he was being nice. Saw him every now and then, and thought he was attractive. But, I really don’t know if he was initially interested or not, and my cousin has said that after a guy feels that you blow him off, they don’t ask or approach again -- not sure about that.
So…what’s a girl to do???
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