My wonderful boy.

We've both been awfully busy lately, him with his teaching assistant job at his university and earning his Masters, and me with my portfolio and design.

Today after work I saw him with another girl. A co-worker's daughter, at that.

Needless to say, it was extremely awkward. He tried to be polite to me, and they both walked a mere few feet away, and then immediately held hands.

I immediately collapsed, in public, and started to shriek and sob.

I hope they heard me. He could've told me. We had been together for a little over 1 year and he could've told me what issues he has with me.
This is going to be hard, as her mother treats me like her own daughter.

I loved him.

ouch. that's horrible. i guess he wasn't so 'wonderful' at all, then? he should've been more upfront and honest with you.

i don't know what else to say, except that i'm sorry.

you deserve better.

What a fucking dick. You guys didn't even officially break up? He just started wandering around with another girl?

Fuck. What an absolute shit head.
Sometimes I wonder where peoples hearts have gone to.

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If he did that then he wasn't the one for you.

Remember you've not lost anything special, a wonderful person would not have rubbed your face in it like that.

No breakup at all.

Most of his friends (including my brother) have moved out of state to go to other schools, even his parents have re-located to another state due to their jobs.

I talked to my brother over the phone about this. The boy has been feeling frustrated with his life lately and is taking it out on me. He was also telling our friends that we had a mutual break-up in July when no such thing happened at all. He bottles everything up and doesn't talk about it. He shuts people out.

I think a big weight should fall on him in a Monty Python-esque manner.

Press the button. Or release the tiger.
Sorry he turned out to be such a dick.

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wait. were you broken up before you saw him with said girl or were you still together?

THAT MAKES ME WANT TO PUNCH WALLS.
who the fuck does any guy think he is that does that sort of thing?!?
that is so fucked up and im sorry that it played out like that. no one deserves that. especially after being with someone for a year.
boys like that dont deserve testicles.
[/kathleen hanna moment]

I'm with the 'he's a complete dick' consensus. Anyone who just disappears, or doesn't have the balls to tell you it's over is a fucktard. And I hear complaints about breaking up via email or phone. At least something was said in those cases.
I know how infuriating it is. My first boyfriend did that to me. He never told me it was over. I found out because a mutual friend (I introduced the b/f to this friend, actually) called me up asking if I was okay. Apparently, that b/f was asking if our friend knew anyone he could get hooked up with. But I can account this to being so young. If you're out of middle school you should handle this kind of thing.
No one deserves this sort of thing. Your better off.

What an absolute cock weasel. I want to slap him heartily for you, then when he is distracted with that, stamp on his testicles.

My first impulse is "awww I am so sorry"

And then "what a fucking tool!"

You need to go out with your friends tonight and be fabulous and forget this cheap asshole ever existed.

Truth. I really have no tolerance for people like this.

He sounds like a disgustingly arrogant person, and it's time you started treating him like one. You obviously deserve better. What's doubly infuriating is how he had the nerve to tell his friends that ye broke up when ye didn't. Trying to justify his hooking up with another girl, no doubt. The cheek of it! You should really set the record straight with your mutual friends, put him in his place. It's good that this happened sooner rather than later. Consider this an opportunity.

I say track this girl down and tell her everything

This is also nauseating.

I'm ready with a baseball bat, cricket bat, and hockey sticks a-go-go. Let's team up on him!
I also have a big garden fork.

Don't do this if you think you have overt "crying drunk girl" tendencies. Because it'll happen. You'll be that girl. If you're stronger, then definitely go and have a wild night.

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I escaped somehow. Let's go

actualy [sic] I have quite a blessed life if I'm honest. I have many people to love, hate few and have few money problem's [sic].... What more does a person need? Oh yeah and I have some kind of humbleness unlike you of course ^_^ ~ CarefulCarpenter

Holy shit... I hope you get separated from this mess ASAP. Get the fuck away from that.

I wouldn't track the woman down, she could know everything already. And plus, it's just begging for trouble.

I say you stay away from him. Start over again. Make it sterile.

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Breathe in, come out

Everybody here is saying he's an idiot and an asshole, but I'd like to point out that above all, he is a fucking COWARD.

A COWARD.

It's lolworthy. What a pityful, spineless excuse for a person.


Go find a really good-looking guy and prance around with him, see how he likes that. & never take him back.

Bastard. Honey, I think you need a man instead of some little boy that doesn't even have to guts to break up with you. What a cunt.

I agree, he IS a total spineless cunt!!

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wow. i feel like i hear these stories all the time. andi fear it happened to me once, but i could never prove it. anyway, yes, what a fucking coward. i cant believe someone trampled all over your heart like that. i actually feel very violent right now.

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Ok
here´s what you do step by step:

1- Get close to this girl somehow
2- Go out with her drink blah talk girlie talk etc. take her to your house and
3- do whatever you know your ex boyfriend is not good that (by that I mean make her orgasm a lot)
4- make her heave him for you