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Old 09-12-2007, 10:00 AM
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how would you deal with this

you were seeing a boy
hardly even SEEING them, just say you go to clubs 2 times a week
and you see him there and you kiss and hang out in a nice drunken kind of way
but you dont see them outside of the club but you send txts
THEN you get another boyfriend or something like that? what do you say to not even seeing the first boy when he txts or you see him at a club?
sozzerz but i have a real boyfriend.......tell me EXACTLY how you deal with it
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Old 09-12-2007, 10:04 AM
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how bad do you want to be?
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Old 09-12-2007, 10:20 AM
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how bad do you want to be?
this isnt actually happening...well it might be but im moving away to a different city in a week or SOMETHING so.. i can just run away and they would never know
but if you wanted to be NICE and lovely BUT just not mental or rude but not too creepy?
but like not presume they care 'let them down gently' because lets just say they felt the same as i did, just like someone to kiss and be with for the night but then you find someone actually good so youre not finishing because there was nothing really there in the first place.......but just telling them?

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Old 09-12-2007, 10:27 AM
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i'd just leave it and be mysterious. like you say it would be hard to explain without ruining the simplicity of what you had with him
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Old 09-12-2007, 10:37 AM
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i'd just leave it and be mysterious. like you say it would be hard to explain without ruining the simplicity of what you had with him
yeahhhh
but what would you do if you then saw themm out with your new person?
surely you cant just ignore their txts and STUFF?

kesh will you meet me when i move to london?
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Old 09-12-2007, 10:42 AM
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It's no big deal. Don't tell him anything until he contacts you to go out or something... and then say "sorry I have a boyfriend now". Maybe you can hang out as friends or something.
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yeah its no big deal...if its drunken kissing you can just leave it as that. you know?
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Old 09-12-2007, 11:26 AM
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yeah, im just sure it would be awkward....
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Do them both and play them off against each other.
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Do them both and play them off against each other.
iv not the beauty nor the charm for thoes kind of shenanigans
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Next time ye text, mention that you're moving away.
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i wouldn't do anything. you're going soon and it was casual.

but if you want to be ncie just drop him a text thanking him for the fun and see you around sometime as im involved with someone else??
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you were seeing a boy
hardly even SEEING them, just say you go to clubs 2 times a week
and you see him there and you kiss and hang out in a nice drunken kind of way
but you dont see them outside of the club but you send txts
THEN you get another boyfriend or something like that? what do you say to not even seeing the first boy when he txts or you see him at a club?
sozzerz but i have a real boyfriend.......tell me EXACTLY how you deal with it
thanks
Suicide.
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you were seeing a boy
hardly even SEEING them, just say you go to clubs 2 times a week
and you see him there and you kiss and hang out in a nice drunken kind of way
but you dont see them outside of the club but you send txts
THEN you get another boyfriend or something like that? what do you say to not even seeing the first boy when he txts or you see him at a club?
sozzerz but i have a real boyfriend.......tell me EXACTLY how you deal with it
thanks
Run the over the first guy in a stolen farming vehicle – like a combine harvester or one of those massive industrial plough things – after inviting him to a club in a corn field. Then blame it on some weirdo event that happened when an alien mothership appeared, innocently trying to form a crop circle and…. Job done!! No more texts from the lameo (cos he was a shite snog anyway). No more lameo snogging in a “nice drunken kind of way” in what is probably a shite club - cos he couldn’t kiss for a lottery win - and you can live happily ever after until the next one comes along!!!

Piece of piss sweetpea. Job done.

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i wouldn't do anything. you're going soon and it was casual.

but if you want to be ncie just drop him a text thanking him for the fun and see you around sometime as im involved with someone else??
I think this would be the best way to do it nicely if you wanted to let him know.
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you tell him "sorry i cant i have a boyfriend."

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sounds like youre settling with a guy (not nice!) while having another guy in mind.
drunky crushes are dumb especially if neither one of you are able to take things in a more normal manner. basically, your both pussies. he doesnt even deserve a reason for not being "interested" anymore.
try and leave it at that. too much time is wasted on vapid individuals that seem appealing when drunk.
take it from an elder.
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Old 09-13-2007, 08:53 AM
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i don't live in london, but if i'm there
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you were seeing a boy
hardly even SEEING them, just say you go to clubs 2 times a week
and you see him there and you kiss and hang out in a nice drunken kind of way
but you dont see them outside of the club but you send txts
THEN you get another boyfriend or something like that? what do you say to not even seeing the first boy when he txts or you see him at a club?
sozzerz but i have a real boyfriend.......tell me EXACTLY how you deal with it
thanks
That happened to me as well...just tell him the truth...don't play games. Tell him you are with someone else and that's all.
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