I'm at my wits end. My ex and I broke it off for good (it was off and on for quite a while) at the end of april, so almost 5 months ago. We still talked occassionally (on friendly terms) and in the beginning had the odd night together, until I told him that it was too hard for me to see him and watch him move on, as I couldn't stop thinking about him. He understood that I couldn't speak to him anymore, and made the dumb move of telling me he loved me. So.. we haven't spoken since then (about 3 weeks) and I'm still going nuts. Part of me wants to grasp on to whatevers left (if that's even anything)and try to make something of it because I wouldn't feel this way about someone if it wasn't for a reason, but a big part of me thinks it's only going to be another emotional roller coaster and I shouldn't bother...
really, I'm crying out for someone to yell at me and tell me I'm being an idiot and not talking to him is the way to go. Knock some sense into me please? anyone?

If it was bad and there were good reasons to end it, then you should try your best to ignore him. The only way to get over him is not to see or talk to him at all. Which it sounds like your doing. So stick with it. You'll feel shitty for awhile but it'll pass. Find things to do to try and keep your mind from wandering back to him. Hopefully it works out for you.

why did it end in the first place? if it was for a good reason, then you should stop talking to him and you should avoid seeing him, even on friendly terms. you'll never get over him otherwise.
you'll cry, you'll miss him. but this is the only way to move on and look forward.

It's easy to forget the bad things about him, but that's what you need to focus on right now.

exes are exes for a reason!!
remember the reasons during your moment of weakness!
Start arranging more time with friends so you wont be tempted to hang out with him just for the sake of hanging out.

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