Basically I've done two dates with this dude, and we kiss at the end of the night but nothing else happens. I dunno, I feel like after the second date it should've escalated in some way. It's not that I think the dude should be putting out already, but I don't know, I just don't get the sense that he's that interested, like maybe he's only going along with it or something. He's nice and everything, but I dunno.

So, what do you bunch of rubbish people think?

FOR THE FIRST TIME EVER, YOUR OPINION MATTERS EVEN HALF AS MUCH AS YOU THINK IT DOES.

I don't think two dates is really that much. I think you should just not call him and see if he calls you for another date... that way you'll know if he's interested.

Two dates is nothing.

If you paid for the date he's obliged to spread 'em that night.

People like him are the reason date rape exists.

maybe hes just shy

if he didnt like you he prob wouldnt have gone on a 2nd date

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no no never say maybe to smack bunny baby again.

depends who's paying for dinner & a movie etc.

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you'll go to hell for what your dirty mind is thinking

two dates is not much imo. i wouldn't give up just yet especially if i really liked him.

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then she dances skirt swaying in the half-light she dances white blossom in the black sky
'I need new clothes', she thinks, 'new skin, a mind I can bear to live in'.

but like, you should trust your instincts.

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you'll go to hell for what your dirty mind is thinking

I can usually tell after the first date.

If you don't think about them & you're not looking forward to the next time you're going to see them it's a waste of your time

i think you should stop worrying about what he thinks of you. He wanted a second date so that shows interest. The question is do you like him? If so, play it kool and enjoy the chase x

if it's just that he's shy and/or enjoying the anticipation of what's to come, then stick with it.

on the other hand, if there's just no spark there whatsoever, then don't waste time on it.

I was seeing my man for a month before we became boyfriend and girlfriend.

If I don't like the guy after 2-3 dates I end it.
But if you like this guy give him more than that for sure. Or make the next move yourself? I wouldn't end it just yet. I don't think it's worth breaking it off with someone because you're afraid they don't really like you or because they move slower than you do.

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53. That's the exact number, you must follow it exactly or chaos WILL ensue.
CHAOS!!!!!







Just fucking dump him, Ophie.
Grow a pair, news pussie.


And... get on cam with i_eat_ether.

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Looking for hot cam2cam action.

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takes me far more than two dates.

I like to get to know people, their past, their experiences, etc to the point where I can pick them apart limb by limb before I decide whats goin' down.

before the date even starts, to be honest....

hahaha
yeah i was gonna say, i give up people pretty much as soon as i meet them.

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"I knew I was too late - and I was glad something bloodthirsty waited in the wings. For in failing at this, I forfeited any desire to live."

Same here, but I'm making a conscious effort not to do that. I've not really done dating in any serious way before, but I'm getting to the point where I'm having to get by on personality rather than boyish good looks.

No, really.

But yeah, I have no idea about signals and crap like that. I don't know how interested someone is meant to look after two dates.

two dates is enough to tell if there’s interest, attraction and sparks. if you like him, you can either wait for things to develop or you can make the first step and see how he reacts. he asked you on a second date, which means he must like you.