advice needed:

what is the easiest way to get over someone?

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time.
sleep.
hang out with people that know where your heads at.
make yourself go out and do things even when you feel like you don't.
& some more time.

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"A junkie is someone who uses their body to tell society that something is wrong.” - Stella Adler

couldn't have said it any better than this.

i think time, really.

i can remember the exact moment i got over all the relationships in my life. you just sortof have to take a deep breath, say "it's done" and move on.

thanks, i know that time will heal it, it's just when i least expect it, something comes up that reminds me of him and i kinda melt.

my friends have been great and one co-worker has been fantastic, he's been good to bounce things off.

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Remember and emulate how you coped with life prior to being with that person. Or do the normal thing and utterly SPOIL yourself!

ugh that is the WORST.
every little thing you see or hear or smell even, you could find a way to link to that person.

i remember once during a breakup, a friend and i stopped at a liquor store to get some wine, and i broke down because it was across the street from the ex's mother's church. so there i was in the middle of a liquor store wailing "that's where we would've gotten MARRIED! probably!"

fuck the pain away.

no... really i think keeping busy and not dwelling. i mean the busier you keep your brain and your body the less time you will have to spare to think and stew and get upset. take a class, hang out with friends, etc. it will work, trust me!

The only way I know to get over someone is by crying myself to sleep while listening to Disintegration and Pornography. I hope you feel better soon <3

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now that I know that I'm breaking to pieces
I'll pull out my heart and I'll feed it to anyone.

cry. alot. get it out of your system. and yeah, what they said.

i hate that sinking feeling. unfortunately i have no good advice, other than the advice already given...

i think it's also a good idea to spend some time alone and think about whats for you in the future.

i've done the same thing far too many times, those are both albums i adore but can reduce me to tears in seconds.

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party pash

quickest? rebound relationship (not recommended)

slower way: focus on your job/school, hang out with friends, flirt, and develop a crush on a person you know it is 95% impossible to ever be with. so far it's working for me.

goodluck

fuck around and get drunk...
nah

i think you gotta give it time man its hard i get really attatched to people myself...maybe go on a trip somewhere ?

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Karmi .....

Revisit. Fuck them one time too many and you'll realise you're over them, or if you're not then you need to be. Quick smart.

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Time is the distance that you can't return by miles.

I escaped somehow. Let's go

actualy [sic] I have quite a blessed life if I'm honest. I have many people to love, hate few and have few money problem's [sic].... What more does a person need? Oh yeah and I have some kind of humbleness unlike you of course ^_^ ~ CarefulCarpenter

lots of red wine

Seriously though, it can take a long while so dont worry. After i got out of my long-term, i reverted back to being a teenager - i dyed my hair pink, wore outrageous clothes and had lots of one nite stands. It was all a huge cover up for my sadness obviously, but it was still good fun and getting out there and meeting new people really helped.

Actually revisiting does work really well. It has opened my eyes in the past and helped me move on. Strangely enough, after enough time passes and I find myself not quite as devastated and it's easier to breathe, I also feel a pang of sadness because mourning has ended.

I haven't felt heartbreak in a while and this thread made me revisit the feeling. <3 bry

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"We believe that the best of America is in these small towns that we get to visit, and in these wonderful little pockets of what I call the real America, being here with all of you hard-working, very patriotic, very pro-America areas of this great nation," she told the crowd.

time yes, but time filled. time waiting for the pain to go away is not so much use