| Should I Stay or Should I Go? Basically... my boyfriend (who this time I've been with for 10 months) just told me about this whole history with some other girl who I've never met.
The story is: She lives an hour away, he dated her before but cheated on her because of the distance... He's always just referred to this girl as "a friend" from his childhood. And has often talked about visiting this girl and spending the night at some video game place with her.
Like I've seen myspace messages he writes to her and he always signs them with "I love you" and he told me it was an "as a friend" type of "I love you"
But I just found out all the story with her and how apparently she has gone between absolutely hating him and being in love with him. And he apparently still has liked her as more than a friend. And he admitted to me that when we argue he thinks about her and would seriously considering going with her if she lived closer.
And the first time we were together he broke up with me, I didn't know why at the time and we hadn't been dating long so I didn't look into it much- but it was because he thought he could get back with her, but she rejected him.
And at first I was like "Well screw this then, I deserve better" but the thing is before... everything was really good and this is my longest relationship.
And now he's writing me poems and pulling this suicidal bullshit.
Should I give him another (this would be the 3rd) chance? |