yeah, a lack of awkwardness is important, even if we're just lounging around not saying anything. also, my two best friends and i all have bad mood swings (not aggressive or anything) so to put up with that from each other and be understanding about it. i guess mostly i just expect a balance. so listening to each other instead of one perosn being the therapist or compromising on what to do together instead of one person being the boss.
the three of us all being best friends with each other is ridiculous though. not so much with me because i'm fairly easy going, but one of them is always mad at the other, so i expect them to not expect me to take sides.