so i posted awhile back about my boyfriend (i'm a guy, by the way - to clear up any confusion) who just isn't that interested in sex.
we've recently been talking about our relationship, and whether it will continue... lots of different shit has come up.
i've said i'm sex-deprived but it hasn't seemed to matter.
am i a horrible person if i sneak something on the side while we're sort of "working it out" or breaking up?
which of those two we're doing is yet to be determined...

tell him you're going out to bone other people, then you don't have to worry about this shit.

You're a disgusting faggot.

I would totally screw around behind his back, though. Maybe even bring him home some herpes as a going-away gift

i know i am

i think i already gave him herpes when we first met... heh

Yes. Cheating is intolerable, regardless of whatever difficulties you may be experiencing in the relationship. If you want to have sex so badly, either wait until after ye are broken up, or tell him that you're going to have sex with other people. If it's not ok with your partner, either don't do it or break up with him. In any case, your willingness to break up with your boyfriend for sexual reasons shows that you don't care that much and probably shouldn't be in this relationship. My advice to you would be to thank your lucky stars that someone like that ever showed an interest in you, break up with the guy and hope that he finds someone who deserves him.