just been reading loads of threads on here and you guys seem to know what youre talking about.
ive recently got back in touch with an ex from a couple of years ago, we were inseperable at college but then split up because he dropped out and i never saw him. i thought i was over him, but now im not so sure. the last couple of weeks ive seen him out and hes asked me to get back with him but my heads completely up my arse.
when we split i went out with a mate of his and he was with someone else too, i dont know if that will mess stuff up? i kind of think it might feel unpure if you get me if we were to sleep together again?
or am i being stupid?
its annoying cause i thought i was fine but i do really miss him.
ive got something of his i need to give him back and he said he'd call so we could meet up this week, but am thinking is it better if i just dont see him again?
its doing my head in!!!

you can absolutely make it work. who cares who you were with after or since. have fun.

i usually feel like they're your ex for a reason

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said thanks for the insults and compliments
you'll never forget my face no more

that being said, if that reason isn't there anymore or things ahev changed, then you can absolutely make it work.
look at why you broke up last time, and see if those issues have since been resolved

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said thanks for the insults and compliments
you'll never forget my face no more

you're not being stupid but i think you are over-thinking this.

you said you really miss him.

you said you're not sure if you're over him.

and that you don't know if having been with other people after the break-up will mess shit up.

i'd say the only way to find out all of this is to give things another try.

if they don't work out, then you'll know. if you never give yourself this chance, you never will.

just do what you want and don't let "what ifs" get in the way of that.

when we live our lives afraid of "what ifs" we never end up going anywhere.